ok i have been talkin to this guy. And i am really shy so i cant really hold a conversation for very long. i dont really know what to talk about. any advice?
2006-09-01 09:15:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o yea i forgot to tell ya he is 16 and i am 13
2006-09-01 09:19:48 · update #1
just kiss him... he won;t mind and you don;t have to talk then!
2006-09-01 09:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by jfinlay01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being shy is hard. If you really like the guy, find out what he likes and then if you have to, research what he likes. If he likes a certain football team, check out that team on the internet, take notes, and memorize what you learn about the team. If you are really worried about what to say, ask him how his day was and listen!! I think you will do fine. Sometimes, talking is overrated. Good luck. And if you were my kid or niece, I'd be telling you, you're not old enough to be with a 16 yr old on a romantic level. OK??
2006-09-01 09:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Debra S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking about something that you know. If he's interested, he'll pick up on it. That way you're able to hold a conversation on something that you know about? It could be a movie or TV show. Ask him advice on your car, if there was a problem. Or maybe just ask him question on how his day went and go from there. Good luck!!
2006-09-01 09:22:15 · answer #3 · answered by Yup! I'm a girl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find things that you have in common. What kind of music does he listen to? Like any sports? TV shows? Like to play pool, go to clubs? Once you have common ground, the conversation can usually carry over from there. Just relax and be you!
2006-09-01 09:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by CrzyGurl21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I can't really help you answer this, but I think it's really funny because I just posted some questions today about that too. I have the same exact problem. I will keep watch on this question!
2006-09-01 09:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what he likes and work it into a conversation. If your into something, sports, shopping, mall walking, whatever, work it on there and see what he thinks. Ask him about where he bought something he is wearing, make him do some talking too.
2006-09-01 09:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OPen communication means that you can feel free to talk about anything or everything and when that is reciprocated in return, then you can truly begin to gain trust with that person.
Talk about what is on your mind today. Know your current events. Talk about women's issues, men's issues, your favorite things you like to do when your making new friends, your most deepest thoughts and questions about men... it can be anything.
2006-09-01 09:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and go with the flow of the conversation...you will be fine. Just talk about everyday stuff, get to know each other, learn about him...Good Luck!!
2006-09-01 09:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by lissad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm ask him a question that u can lead into alot of questions....like who do u get along with the most in ur family, how many brothers and sisters do u have, ...or what do u want to do in the future, what college are u going to, are u moving out of state....and if ur having that much trouble with it just think of the fact that hes trying to think of things to say too and just relax
2006-09-01 09:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by lia86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that if you are asking him questions..he is answering aka he is doing lots of the talking...so you can't go wrong with asking questions. here are some examples of what to talk about (places you've been, places you want to go, family, friends, food/resturaunts, activities you want to do like waterski, etc., your fav tv show, school, work, likes/dislikes)...hope this helps!
2006-09-01 09:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK try politics, stocks, business, well unless you are under the age of 18 than talk about cartoons, and toys.
2006-09-01 09:18:54 · answer #11 · answered by Big Daddy M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋