I'm in love with a guy with whom i'm doing the same degree but different mojors. Last yr (our 1st yr) i used to see him everyday now i hardly come across him i the corridors.He is an intrivert and i'm the exert oposite.he is nice to me and we used to stare at each other in class.i don't know if he likes me or he just puts up with me coz i bother him a lot,trying to get him out of his shell. since our separation,my chances of getting close to him have become very slime.i miss him;his smile, the way we stared, voice, inteligence.i want him to be a part of my life if only as a friend.how do i do this?
2006-09-01 09:15:26 · 10 answers · asked by Nikita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go and talk to him, ask him if he wants to go hang out and catch a movie or get a group of friends together and see if he'd like to come along, so there isn't any date pressure. If he's shy, you'll have to make the first move. Go for it!!! Good luck
2006-09-01 09:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your shy like me. All you have to do is the next time you see him ask if you can talk to him, and when you get that chance tell him how you feel and ask him what he thinks about it. If he tells you he feels the same way then mention that you would like to get to know him better and that you would like to out on a date with him sometime. But don't look at the ground or all around, make sure you look him in his eyes so he will know that your not playing games with him. Eye contact is always better. Good luck.
2006-09-01 09:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by tanya d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortune favors the bull, ie. you should ask him out on a date. These days it's prefectly normal for a girl to ask a guy out. Some of us guys even appreciate that you'll put yourself on the line, and not play the same old games hoping the guy can take a hint, that we guy never seem to pick up on. ^_^
2006-09-01 09:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by ravenofchrist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think maybe u miss him because he's such a challenge - are u sure it's love? if so, u gotta make a move, but if u're not sure, try finding a new challenge to occupy your thoughts u can't have shame when it comes to making moves, so who cares if u come across as desperate - either he's gonna say yes or no & everybody gets turned down sometimes good luck
2006-09-01 09:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by JeenaBlahBlahBlah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope your just nervous because college aint teachin spelng anmore. Sorry I had to do that.
It's not hard. Keep in contact with him with small talk; e-mails, calls, make it consistent. If you dont' spend time with eachother, nothing will happen. Good luck.
2006-09-01 09:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see him next, go up to him and tell him how happy you are to see him and that you have missed him terribly. Ask him if it's ok that you call him and then get his phone number. You might give him your phone number too.
Good luck,,............ oh....... word of advice,, stay in English and Grammar classes, k?
2006-09-01 09:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by chunkydunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to look into taking a basic English class. You need to learn; spelling, grammar, and punctuation.
2006-09-01 09:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by J P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next Time you see him
Ask him out
If he says NO...
IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD
So, please notify me immediately if he says "no" so I can make plans
2006-09-01 09:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him, you have very strong feelings for him
2006-09-01 09:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too long...
2006-09-01 09:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by qtiebabie06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋