im 15 year old male and this girl who has like been my best freind for he past 3 years, and i want to go on a date with her, but every one is telling me dont date your best freind, your opinion on this and how should i ask her (oh and she is my same age)
2006-09-01 08:50:24 · 6 answers · asked by ~!FISH!~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well young feller, who better then your best friend.. I married my best friend and it was wonderful, dont lisson to the others you do what your heart tells you.. Date her and have fun, being shes you friend now you way ahead of the game and you two know each other enough that you"ll see that each other has fun.Go get her and good luck..your friend from Tennessee...ROB
2006-09-01 08:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think its really sweet that you'd like to take your bestfriend out on a date. I can understand why some people might advise againist it - they might say it will ruin the friendship etc but if its just a date there is absolutely no problem with it (as long as your not planning on declaring your undying love - that would be way too full on) but a date sounds like a great idea!
Im a 23 year old female and i was a 15 year old chick not so long ago so hopefully i can give you some helpful advice.
ok, if your looking for an idea on how to ask her.... let it come naturally. If its too rehearsed, and you've been analysising it for days, your more likely to be way too nervous so just try and act cool about the whole situation.
If you think there is a chance she may not be interested (which is highly unlikely seeings as tho she likes you enough to be your bestfriend already!) just make it seem as tho its just a casual date
for example, you could start up a conversation about a new movie that's out and ask if she'd like to go see it wit you on the weekend
or if movies aren't your thing, you could say something along the lines of, "Im really lucky to have someone like you who has been such a great friend over the past few years, i'd really like to take you out for dinner sometime.... you know, just to say thanx and show you how much i appreiciate having you as a friend."
keep it cool and casual and you'll be fine! whatever happens after that (whether you turn into boyfriend / girlfriend or just continue being good friends) always make sure she knows how much you apprieciate spending time wit her!
Good luck
2006-09-01 16:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww. Me and my bf are 15 and have been best friends for years also. If you think that you two can still be friends even if you break up, go for it. When you ask her out, you may wanna kind of joke around first. That way if she doesn't feel the same way, you can always lean back on the 'I was only kidding' thing. Kind of immature, but it's like a safety net. Good luck!
2006-09-01 15:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by ....... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister is 14 (same age as me wooo!) she went out with her best friend this year ... they had a lovely relationship and when it finished they remained best friends, you have to understand this is not always the case but you'll never know if you don't try.
i say go for it !! xxx good luck xxx
2006-09-01 15:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Charlie V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask her! Best friends make the very best of lovers.
2006-09-01 15:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by CALI_GURL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it i dated my best friend for three yesrs but i also knew him my whole life
2006-09-01 15:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by lacy_gllsp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋