Many of you know, I am getting over a girl right now. Well, today I met this girl, ( I have seen her before, but I got her email from her friend. She goes to another school , though,. Well we emailed a couple of times, just to get to know each other, What are some good tips on how to charm her, and how not to turn her off?
2006-09-01 08:50:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll answer your question in a sec, but let me say this real quick. It sounds to me like you're just looking for a girl now to get over the other one. I know you don't like hearing this, but it's a fact of life, but just sit back and relax, let things come to you naturally. Just hang out with your guy friends and have some fun for awhile, leave the girls alone for now. Or maybe you and a few of your guy friends could arrange to meet a girl and some of her friends at the movies or something, hang out at the mall. This way it'll keep the pressure off of you with a one on one thing. Going after this new girl right now wouldn't be fair to her or yourself because you're still hung up on the other girl.
Now to answer your question, with this girl or any other girl that comes up in your future, just be yourself. Act like you do around your guy friends; just a more gentleman-type version...at least until you two get to know each other a little better and are comfortable around each other. That's when you can let all your bad habits show. lol ...seriously. But anyway, I wish you luck in the future. Just remember to be yourself, don't obsess, and you should be alright. =)
2006-09-01 10:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Punky Brewster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are from my opinions and experiences.
1. Smile when you talk to her, it shows you are interested in her.
2. Be honest, it builds trust.
3. Be sincere, it shows that you aren't afraid to let her know what you think and how you feel.
4. Complement her, but not to the point to worship.
5. Be yourself, acts almost always get seen through.
6. Be curious about her, you want to know what she likes, dislikes.
7. Ask questions when she mentions something, it shows you are paying attention.
8. Laugh at her jokes, unless they are really bad.
9. Touch lightly her hand, arm, shoulder, anywhere that's non-sexual. It shows an interest without conveying that you want her in bed (even if you do).
These are just some general tips, do what feels natural and go with your instincts.
2006-09-01 16:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell this kid to be himself...he's a friggin stalker...and a liar. Sorry kid, no one writes all that crap about a girl and does repeat postings for days and then meets a girl and is normal again. Go get help you sick little ***. You got this girls e-mail from a friend huh...so you can now become obssessed with this one? 1 hour ago you wrote you're just not ready to let go of the other 13 year old....now you are.....get medication *** face.
2006-09-01 15:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just treat her in a respectable manner and don't try to pressure her into something that she doesn't want to do. Listen to her as she talk and show interest. Just be yourself and don't be fake about who you are. You don't have to give into her every demand but treat her like a lady and things will work out just fine.
2006-09-01 15:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just don't bring up the topic of sex. Many girls don't wanna admit it but that's a major turn off. Unless of course she brings it up then I guess you got a freak on ya hands lol.
2006-09-01 15:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy seriously be yourself thats the only way, you think girls cant see through that bull, when you think they dont they do they just allow things to happen trust me.
2006-09-01 15:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by bibby6914 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself
2006-09-01 15:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by rosebabi478 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself.
2006-09-01 15:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r really nuts.
2006-09-01 15:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by sardar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
handcuff her to the wall and ........................
2006-09-01 15:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by mikebrennan_us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋