if guys have a wonderful girl at home for them etc. wife or g/f then why do they need to go to strip clubs and look at porn? it makes their g/fs feel like crap thinking that we r not good enough for our guys. girls tell me what u think please.
2006-09-01 08:18:10 · 7 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't care if my husband looks at other women. I know I look at other men.
I'm not a jealous woman, I know where he's coming home at night, and I trust him. I know that while he may look at and appreciate another woman, he's not seriously thinking of her. She's just a temporary piece of eye candy.
I notice other men, and I look. I freely admit it. While I'm not into porn, I have gone to male strip clubs, and had a great time. It's not all about seeing someone naked or half naked. It's about having fun, and acting more wild than you normally would. You don't see people stuffing money down others pants in public; it's a different outlook than reality.
If you truly feel that your guy looking at another woman makes you feel like crap, then maybe it's time to find a guy who doesn't get into porn and strippers. There are plenty out there, and you shouldn't have to suffer with someone who makes you feel like you are less than what you are. I don't think anyone should have to be in a relationship where their partner makes them feel bad about themselves.
2006-09-01 08:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most probably he is seeing what he can't get u to do at home. As you know there is no touch at a strip club only see. If he isn't coming home to see you after wards then i would think there is more to this.
2006-09-01 15:23:16 · answer #2 · answered by xeson1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i would like to know the answer to this too but in my guys defense I like looking at chics too. I don't generally feel like crap because I like to look so as long as there is no touching unless i say it's ok
2006-09-01 15:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by sunday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want to look at stuff they wouldn't ask their girlfriends to do, that's why porn exists. It's not that you aren't good, he just respects you that's all.
2006-09-01 15:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You prepare food every day at home then why do u go out for Dinner to an outside place?
VArity. if you want to stop him .. play differently
2006-09-01 15:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by rockiee80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask the same thing to my bf and he answered "you know I love hamburgers, and that hamburgers are my favorite food, but that doesn't mean I don't want to eat pasta sometimes"
2006-09-01 15:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a girl
i am with u on this question
2006-09-01 15:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by vampgirl_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋