2006-09-01 08:13:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is my situation..I have been chillin with this chick for awhile and we get along great. She has a great personality and we like many of the same things. Now the problem is I just found out from her sister that she has been taking birth control pills so that she could sell herself on the streets. She does not know that her sister told me this but I'm tempted just to drop everything and just run. Should I atleast confront her to find out if this is true or just walk?
2006-09-01 08:14:45 · update #1
Go for it. Cheaper than dinner and a movie!!
2006-09-09 05:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know her sister is even telling the truth? Just taking birth control pills -- if THAT is even true -- isn't evidence of prostitution.
If she's your friend, she has a right to know what an astounding claim her sister is saying about her. I suggest that you make sure it's NOT a big accusative confrontation, though. She's your friend, so instead, tell her about it (politely, quietly) in a "I just thought you should know what she's saying..." way.
If you can avoid sounding judgemental or accusative, she may even admit it (if it's true). I'm betting it's not, though. Either way, try to stay calm enough to avoid it turning into a big scene... if only out of consideration for the friendship you have (or had) with her...
After that, you'll have to decide how you feel about whatever explanation she gives you -- if any.
2006-09-01 15:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by pixelscapes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's no reason to stop liking them is it. It is a choice they have made and are comfortable with. It is legal in many places now, which has made it safer but unfortunately more expensive. There is nothing worse than when a girl has to hide cause see recognizes someone she knows while working. Some people are too judgmental.
2006-09-01 15:16:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay with her, you like her for her not her life styles. Her sis must envy her because no one that care will rat their family out unless they think there getting something in return, besides she may not even like the fact that she has to sell herself. The women of today take care of bussiness no matter what or how they do it.
2006-09-01 15:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Shai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends ... are they asking you to buy into them? She might be doing for what she thinks is a good reason, though their is really no good reason for the general population. If you dig her and she digs you go for it.
Just beware if she continues to sell her body in the long run then that relationship might not be a good one.
2006-09-01 15:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by uxemacs2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask the girl in question about her relationship with the sister first. The sister might be jealous and lying to you so you'd break up.
2006-09-01 15:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is many better girls out there. i donot know where are they. but i believe they are some where some time will show up. walk away. u donot need to have any talk with her. she may will defend herself and try to make u believe she will stop doing this. she will not. she wasnot honset with u from the 1st. she will be like all times. u didnot need to be with girl like that. forget it man. and good luck
2006-09-01 15:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by happylife1440 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find out for sure if it is true, then I would tell the sister that you know, and that she should stop.
2006-09-09 14:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely check yourself out to make sure you're fine...and then talk to her and get the whole deal from her...and if you don't feel comfortable [I know I wouldn't]....say buh-bye
2006-09-01 15:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by newyorkrose9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her sister is a religious fanatic and is just telling you that so you will leave.
Or she wants to bang you.
2006-09-01 15:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋