I'm not the kind of guy that always gets the girl, but people keep saying that x likes me and then a month later that y likes me, and even one girl told me that she had a crush on me b4 and I had no clue. I'm not extreemly hot or anything, I'm smart, funny and artistic. Is this the kind of guy girls actually go for? I mean, at one point they were even saying that the hottest girl in the class (the one everyone fancies) liked me. So, what I'm asking is, do the hot girls actually get crushed on the "regular" guys? See, I dont flirt with them (not seriously anyway) but, I think I am good to talk to. What should I do if I think someone likes me now? (I've been gaining confidence for obvious reasons, lol)
2006-09-01 07:35:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, you said you're a good listener. then analyze the conversation and the body language. you don't have to be great looking to get good looking girls (i should know). it's time to come out from your shell. you're smart; you can figure it out.
2006-09-01 07:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I mean this seriously and not as a smart butt. why ask us. you need to start communicating with the girls, hiding here will get you know where. Get BOLD. get some dates.. try em, you might find great sucess. If you dont try you will be still sitting with the same old question. Get to it now. you will find doing some talking on your own will do wonders. thats the best I can tell you..
try it today.. you might find great sucess. dont give up on the first few that say no. it might take some effort to find the right one.
end of sermon, now go do i t..
2006-09-01 14:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the fact that your not out there trying to get in the girl's pants is kind of intriging to a girl and it makes a girl wonder humm i wonder how 's like. girls go for mysterious and if there ignore more unconstiously it;s even more appleaing and don't let it all go to your head either that would be a very bad turn off and if girls are likeing you and your not noticeing well you got to look more and listen for hints and girls love a guy who's artistic they just don't say it girls want a more deeper guy not one that's easy to judge different is intresting and girls can get curious about a guy who different like it's a challenge something new and excieting and who knows you might rock there world
2006-09-01 14:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by latina2theend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love a good sense of humor. If a guy can make her laugh, she'll be all over that!
Yes, even popular girls go for regular guys. (Think Julia Roberts and Lyle Lovett.)
If someone likes you now, ask her out. If she says no, don't fret! There's another girl around the corner who will like you just as much! Good luck!!!
2006-09-01 14:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by Whatever 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls like guys who are interested in them, not the kind of guys who think the world revolves around them. Girls like a guy they can talk to, who has a brain and knows how to use it. We love funny guys, make any situation comfortable. Sounds like you have all the right characteristics for a good and fun boyfriend!! Good luck with your choices!!
2006-09-01 14:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by mariajd3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself! It seems to be working pretty good. Many girls like a challenge. There has got to be a bit of mystery. If you like a girl, ask her out straight. Girls like guys with confidence. But be carefull, don't let it get to your head because it could backfire!
2006-09-01 14:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by Dragonfly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeh i have always liked the regular guys the ones who actually have personalitys! and if you are good to talk to,smart,funny and artistic then its not surprising everyone wants to get on you!i no some girls are shallow but personality is way better! (sure u r a hottie too tho!)
i have often fallen for my friends just cos you can talk to them and you know them so well and c wat a great person they r!!!
2006-09-01 14:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think your just a little over confident in yourself! you say your smart-well read you question & details again. and yes, girls like opening up to guys that can relate to us (*******)
2006-09-01 14:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by soul.searcher 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls like a guy that knows who he truly is.
2006-09-01 14:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her out before someone else does!
2006-09-01 14:38:25 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋