Should I call him?

Question

My bf snapped at me yesterday (for something really stupid). He made me feel really bad, so I had him take me home and I didn't say goodbye or give him a kiss (which i would on a normal day). I waited for him to call me and at least talk to me, but he never did. He usually gives me a ride to work in the morning, but i took the train instead. I haven't talked to him today. What should i do? Call him and talk to him? or wait for him to call me? :(

Answer 1

I might wait a while...give him time to think about his actions.

Answer 2

Always wait for a guy to call you especially if he started if by snapping at you for some stupid reason. If you call him you will be setting yourself up to repeat this behavior over and over and over. I know you don't want that. If he LOVES you he will call. He has your number, just bite your hand off (lol) and do anything to keep from picking up the phone. It will be hard, but you can do it. He can act like he doesn't know what is wrong, but he DOES know he did it. It is good not to reward BAD behavior. And since womenn end up doing most of the emotional work in a relationship, this goes over the line. He needs to learn self control and grow up. If you enable him now, he won't have to and you will find yourself catering to a "brat." Just wait. If he does not call, then you know, maybe he wanted it over anyway and was looking to push himself out of the situation. Rough for you, but better than in the long run. Write him a letter, but don't send it. Then a few days later write another, and you willl see how YOUR feelings change overtime if he does not call. I bet he will. So just wait, then HE will be READY to talk. Listen, don't judge, but just be firm that you will not tolerate this kind of behavior. He will respect you and LOVE you even more and then when you look at the long run, you will LOVE him more cause you won't be stuck with a rude brat!!!!

Answer 3

Well I think you should wait. It's Friday. Give his a** until 9:00 to call you if he hasn't then get with your girls and go party. Spend the night on the town and stay out late. Turn your phone off. He will call you and he will call again tomorrow to see why you weren't answering your phone. Let him know that you felt bad after he yelled at you and that since he never called to apologize that your friends decided to cheer you up and they took you out for some harmless fun. He will call to apologize in the future. That's a guarantee.

Answer 4

Wait for him to call you, after all, he hurt YOUR feelings. If you call him then that gives him the upper hand, wait a few days to make him think that you dont care and then he'll start blowing up your phone.

Answer 5

Don't call. Hold on to your dignity. If he's the real deal, he will call, come over or whatever is necessary to make things right.

Answer 6

well girl, the first thing that you should do is think twice do you really want to talk to him or do you want him to apologize guys somethings are such jerks that they wait for the girl to apologize to them even if its their own fault. so do what you feel its right.

Answer 7

Call him!

Answer 8

what did you do to make him do that ? think about it is it really stupid ? does she usualy act like that if not call him

Answer 9

Well it depends on how he thinks about it too. you think it's petty minded maybe he feels strongly about the issue. what is the issue and i;ll tell you my answer.It depends on what it was about.

Answer 10

Neither,leave him