how do i bring up to my boyfriend about orgy's, sex is boring & im very interested in hooking up with another couple. My boyfriend very consertative & know 4 sure he would get mad... i really want to do this though & i dont want to cheat either.
2006-09-01 07:18:41 · 18 answers · asked by Audrey L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ease him into this one....don't bring up another couple right away. Try asking him about a threesome with another girl. Its every man's fantasy after all. Once he tries it he may become open to other things. Good luck.
2006-09-01 07:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by Julie W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about it. Sit him down abd tell him what your feeling. Its a chance your going to have to take. Who knows maybe he wont be as offended as you think. Have you triued introducing him to these things slowly. A little bit at a time. Have you done costumes and other toys to spice things up maybe that should be a start to open him up to other things. Unleash his wild side. Try watching adult movies that focus on the kind of activites you are interested in. Maybe he is insecure be sure to let him know that he has no reason to be insecure and he has so much going for him . Then may be he wont be shy around others if the oppertunity your looking for may arise. Introduce him to new things slowly first one on one and then you can move toward what ever else you have in mind. Hope i helped.
2006-09-01 14:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by candylishus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide if ruining your relationship is worth having sex with another couple. Have you tried spicing up your sex life? Use some feathers, a blind fold, hand cuffs, oils, eatable creams, chocolate, foods you can eat off each other, role playing with costumes, there are allot of things to try with just the two of you since he is conservative.
2006-09-01 14:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like you need to sit him down and have a real heart to heart. Sit him down, share how much you love him and want to be able to share your thoughts without him getting mad, to just listen to you. Be open to hearing his thoughts and fears. This can bring up a lot in people. Be open to him saying no, find maybe other things that interest you both, porn, videos, magazines, role playing. Good luck!
2006-09-01 14:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be with him if that's how you feel. That;s not right. You need to tell him about what you want...he might accept but then he may not. But don't end up in this relationship where you won't get to do what you want. why make both suffer? get out now. obviously you are not ready for a monogamous relationship. he will get over it.
2006-09-01 14:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate your wishes with your partner in a mature, honest and open way. He may not be as comfortable with this arrangement as you or he may surprise the heck out of you and go right along with it. Either way, he'll never know what you want if you don't inform him. Best of luck.
2006-09-01 14:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to warm him up. Get a porno with some group action, check his reaction and just put it out there. Say something like, that looks fun, or pleasurable. Something along those lines and see what it may invoke in him.
2006-09-01 14:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the reason you're bored in bed is b/c you're bored in the relationship. Having sex w/ others won't help that.
2006-09-01 14:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by SavageLettuce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order for you to do it without causing problems he would have to be on board. If he is not. You should either forget it or find another boyfriend. Me.
2006-09-01 14:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-01 15:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by hotblack_b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋