Being a virgin myself, I have my own personal opinion, but I'm just wondering what other people think.
2006-09-01 07:01:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With a person that has some experience, he knows what he's doing and can teach you how wonderful it can be..and with the right person sweety it can really be wonderful..Your friend from Tennessee...ROB
2006-09-01 07:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time should be with the one you love. You should be married before you have sex with anyone but that is an old fashion way of thinking so i will say that you should both be in love with only each other. Do you want a guy who has had everyone?? These days you should be careful because you will be sleeping with everyone that person has slept with and everyone they've had. Ever hear of aids??
2006-09-01 14:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by deborah_012003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experienced...
There is nothing more off putting than fumbling around trying to get it right. If you go for someone who is experienced you can lie back and enjoy it more... Also they will probably `last` quite a bit longer.
You can break a virgin in yourself at a later time :)
2006-09-01 14:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With someone who knows what they are doing. You would hope that with an experienced man that he would know how to please you and how to comfort you on your first time.
Another virgin is going to be so worked up abou their own first time, they probably aren't going to be as careful as they should or as concerned about you either.
2006-09-01 14:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have your first time with a man who cares about you and respects you and for whom your feelings are also very strong and someone with whom you feel completely at ease with. I believe if that is the case their experience or lack thereof will not matter.
2006-09-01 14:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by friendlyshoulder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find an older more experienced guy, that knows what he is doing and who want to please you, that will be much more enjoyable for you, and that is what u are after, the pleasure of good sex, with a virgin you both will not be totally satisified, and may not even know how good sex can be....
2006-09-01 14:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys with "experience" are not always the right ones, since some of them are rude and tough. You should do it with someone you have feelings for, so It will feel special.
2006-09-01 14:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by Kathy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the virgin guys vote for virgins,
and the experienced guys vote for experienced guys
2006-09-01 14:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
EXPERIENCED, many times over. Newbies are lacking in what to do. Besides it may only last a few second or strokes.
2006-09-01 14:04:44 · answer #9 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Experience tells me that I would need to take it slow with you so you would enjoy it.
Something you won't get from a virgin
2006-09-01 14:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋