I have recently been diagnosed with fibromyalgia, my b/f said that he would be here for me. the past few days i have had a really bad side effect from medication, i had to go to the hospital even. I called him and told him my mom was taking me - he didnt even offer to go, or to come over after i got home, then when it happened again the next day, he was sleeping and wouldnt come over - he knows im mad and appologized, but why cant he just be here for me? Weve been together 4 years, work different shifts now, and im always always there for him, am i stupid to help him when he cant be here for me? is he being mean or just dumb?
2006-09-01 07:01:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't love u when he can't even be there in your time of need. Move on u could do better.
2006-09-01 07:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Ian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not about him being selfish. Maybe he's just trying to deal with your illness...could it be that he wants to "fix" you and he realizes that he can't? Maybe he's scared of losing you...talk to him, don't automatically make him the bad guy..tell him how you feel, tell him you need his love and support right now.
2006-09-01 07:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being mean & dumb ~ you'll find guys who'd be there for your after just 4 months.
2006-09-01 07:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by jwilmotte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you, in my humble opinion. Good luck.
2006-09-01 07:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by Ale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋