i want 5 kids and to be deeply in love is that weird
2006-09-01 07:00:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
It's a completely normal feeling. . . just make sure you're not missing out on being a teenager. There's a time for marriage and kids, and that will be a great time in your life. . . but you'll never get this time back. So in the meantime, have fun being in high school, hanging out with your friends, dating different boys, and discovering who you are.
2006-09-01 07:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird to want to have a big family. But I can guarantee if you're looking for marriage to feel secure, you've got the shock of your life coming. A lot of married people feel very insecure in their marriage especially if they've married too young. Concerns about growing apart instead of together, will one partner want to go partying instead of having the same relationship goals...the list goes on.
Being deeply in love, committed with a partner and a marriage is awesome, just know you should take your time.
2006-09-01 14:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by empress_pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage will not necessarily make you more secure than you are now. Marriage must only be considered when you are reasonably sure you are emotionally mature and responsible enough to cope with the ups and downs of marriage. Trust me girl, marriage is not necessarily blissful. Please wait some more.
You are not weird, just overly anxious. Having 5 kids will only give you a happy experience if your partner desires that many and you both can provide for them financially. Good luck.
2006-09-01 14:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal, but I do suggest you take your time. You are not yet 18... or 21. You have plenty of time to make yourself into the person you want to be before you decide to get married and have children. Think of all the wonderfull things you will get to share with them if you wait untill the time is right...
2006-09-01 14:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you somehow are deluded enough to think getting married equals security? Have you seen the statistics on divorce? Better for you to become self sufficient and limit the breeding you do to one or two - the number that you can take care of on your own when you become a single parent.
2006-09-01 14:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by ceprn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too wanted to be married at like 16.... i also wanted kids...thought i could raise them..... anyway i have thanked God many times since then, that i waited for marriage and kids.....it gave me time to grow up and be a kid for a while.
2006-09-01 14:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by who be boo? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong with that at all. since i was 15 i've wanted kids and to be married lol. it will all come when the time is right...everything happens for a reason. :)
2006-09-01 14:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanted to get married and have several children. That's what I have done. Nothing wrong with it.
2006-09-01 14:04:47 · answer #8 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you need to talk to a counselor your way to young to be married you need to further your education find yourself and settle before you think about getting married personally i don't think it should be legal to get married until you are in your 30s you don't know what you want until then
2006-09-01 14:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by ladyluck356 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing is wrong. Society and religion have molded you well, my dear Brittany.
2006-09-01 14:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by Ale 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋