You see your buddies ex out one night and 1.) you think she is really cute 2.)she is sweet 3.) she is still really bitter about catching her ex(your buddy) cheating on her 3.) you are attracted to her 4.) she asks you to driver her home(you do) 5.) she asks you to stay(you do) 6.) she asks you to sleep in the bed with her (you do) 7.) She asks you to put your arm around her (you do). Nothing more happens, are you violating the "guy code"? What if you really like her? Can you date her?
2006-09-01 06:59:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is fair game. It's not like she's married. Friend or not, it didn't work out for them. If your friend has an issue with it, either he'll get over it or he will resent you for it, and you cannot control how another person feels.
My best friend and I feel that a guy can date a girl and vice versa as long as they are not going out with anyone else. The past is in the past and not everyone is compatible. I would not date my best friend's ex-boyfriends, but then again, she and I have different taste in guys. But if I liked a guy and he dated someone in the past that I was friends with, but not best friends, "hey, fair game", I'd go for it!
2006-09-01 07:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend cheated on her, than I guess it not up to you to keep the code since he didn't really care for her in the first place.
She definitely deserve someone alot better, and seems like you have shown her just that; which you did not take advantage of the situation when you had the chance.
I would say by going for her you wouldn't break any of the code at all.
2006-09-01 07:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by thsiung 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously all the Male Testosterone aside. How good of friends are you and the other guy? Is it someone you want to keep as a friend? If you do, then you should really talk to them about it. If you don't mind losing a friend and possibly getting in a fight then don't talk about it. Also make sure she says it's ok, before you actually have sex. Did you know it's considered rape if she doesn't specifically tell you it's ok? Crazy, Good Luck!
2006-09-01 07:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by outdoorsadventurousman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, it probably is violating the "guy code" but if she didn't feel the same about you as you do her, she probably wouldn't have asked you to stay and put your arm around her... dude just do it, ask her out... and if you feel badly about it, tell your buddy about it, and tell him how you really feel... he oviously didn't care much about her if he cheated on her, right? right!! Just do what is in your heart... But, ask her how she feels first, and tell her how you feel, and see if things could work out, make sure its not something like she wants to use you for "pay back" and if things are cool with you two, tell your buddy... you snooze you lose, get at it... and good luck!!
2006-09-01 07:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she did no longer verbally abuse you or touch you, so no that's not organic to experience violated. If I felt violated each time a guy gawks at me i would not have the potential to bypass away the homestead because of the fact it occurs continuously.
2016-11-06 05:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by sikorski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dammit u should have had sex with her. she was waiting for it anyway.
but what the hell, havent u seen melrose place, or friends. u can date around the circle if u want. whatever makes u happy.
2006-09-01 07:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! by the way do u know billy b from questions and answers?
2006-09-01 15:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by johnny girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont go that far to end with "nothing happens" bone her or nothing at all
2006-09-01 07:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ciccio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure - just get in her panties next time.
2006-09-01 07:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that ever happens again, finish the job , OK!!!!
Guy code?????? what guy code????????
2006-09-01 07:03:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋