My mother is away visiting her sick aunt and I came home from work to discover my father dressed in my mother´s underwear and in her make-up dancing to Kylie Minogue records. I could see some lines of white powder on the coffee table (cocaine??).
He begged me not to tell my mother, but I think it is wrong to keep secrets from her.
What do you think I should do?
2006-09-01 06:56:09 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
stay out of it... it could just have been a bit of experimentation that got out of hand... :D
2006-09-01 07:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
LOL!!
If in fact you busted him, and think he's gone off the deep end tell your mother. The cocaine could get the whole family in trouble.
I'd ask him why he was doing that, and tell him he needs to get help.. Hold that up to him and say "man your sick, and you need help. " Tell him he needs to do it today.
The dressing crap is likely the result of chemical use. the cocaine (or meth) will make him craze him out.
Inform him you will inform your mother that you caught him with white powder that was drawn up in "snort" lines. IF he does not get help with it. Tell him HE needs to tell mom when she returns or you will..
2006-09-01 07:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You poor, poor boy. Read your other questions - you are having ahell of a life.
Please tell your mom. It is only fair. Why deprive her of the opportunity of sharing a wardrobe with the woman in her life? They could experiment with makeup, give each other pedicures and manicures, swap beautify secrets. As for the white powder - that just some Coty talcum powder for slipping into your mum's shoes.
2006-09-01 07:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Play "Goodbye Horses" at a high volume.
Walk in to the room, apply lipstick and deliver the classic lines from "Silence of the Lambs" (which he's seen), and most recently, "Clerks 2", (which hopefully, you've seen).
Learn the famous serial killer dance. If he says anything, pull out a very realistic looking replica gun... say something akin to, "It puts the lotion on it's skin, or else it gets the hose again." and have a friend storm in the room with a hose hooked up to the outside spicket, blasting him with it. Get up in his face, and start screaming as loud as you can as if you are being stabbed repeatedly by a very dull rusty steak knife..
This will probably solve all your family problems. It will definately present new ones, but change is good, and you should get used to it.
2006-09-01 07:15:50 · answer #4 · answered by Erad 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Difficult one T D, it may be that your Mother already knows about your Father's habit and tolerates it. I guess your Father must have been so embarrassed when you walked in, could you talk it over with him first, perhaps it will give you some insight in to the situation and ease your mind.
2006-09-01 08:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by Red Mary 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is a tough one. But before you go getting all worked up maybe you should try having a heart to heart with the old man. Perhaps he was doing drugs. If so then that's a whole seperate problem. Now it may seem a little optamistic on my part, but maybe he was wearing her things b/c he missed her? One ting is for sure, if you do bring it up with you mother, you should give rher some time. The last thing she needs right now w/ her aunt being ill, is to have a whole bunch of drama added on. Talk to your old man. Try to find out what's really oging on... and be calm, let him talk.
2006-09-01 07:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by CrimelessRaver 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
OK so hes a transvestite, i can see why your upset but think about how hes feeling now that you know! Hes probably just as embarrassed as you are! talk to him ask him some questions you have about him and why he does it! And as for the 'cocaine' dont jump to conclusions before you talk to him, remember, Innocent until proven guilty!
2006-09-01 07:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Tell your mom there is no other option it would be wrong if you didnt, if your mom isnt aware of him doing drugs she could end up getting hurt one day even tho they might be in a perfect relationship, but someone that is using drugs can change in a heartbeat so i would protect your mom and tell her asap...if you love her you will
2006-09-01 07:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by LUCKYGIRL 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to sit down and talk to your father about this. Is this the first time he's dressed up? If so then I wouldn't tell your mum. But if he admits to doing it often well.... yeah be honest with her.
But be prepared for her to know, and to snub your interference!
2006-09-01 08:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do you love your mother?
do you love your father?
you need to let your father know that you know his secret and that you think he should tell your mother, to save any embarassing moments that might happen, like when you discovered him.
your mom might be upset but in the long run your mom might be a bit freaky too, and understand what your father is doing.
good luck
2006-09-01 07:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by Forever Looking 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your mother deserve the truth, or else she will be leaving a lie. Your father needs help and unless you don't try to tell someone who can help, things will get worse.
2006-09-01 06:59:43 · answer #11 · answered by Kathy B 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋