Recently my husband asked me not to wear a short pants to go to the beach. I wana be sexy too.He also left me home to go clubbing with his friend. i really wanted to go. I am hurt.
2006-09-01 06:50:51 · 21 answers · asked by jules 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK HERE IT IS. HE IS CONTROLLING. Im a guy and have never done that. Be your own person. stand up to him and say if your going with the fellas then im with my girls. Let him know its an equal relationship not his way or the highway. BE STRONG
2006-09-01 06:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by patrick b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, when you look too sexy to him, he worries other guys will get interested. Protective jealousy.
What you need to do is pay more attention to him when you are dressed sexy. It doesn't take much. Just make eye contact with your man when you are talking to someone else. Let him know that you might be talking to this turkey next to you out of politeness, but you'd rather be with him.
The same with the bar scene. NEVER cut down your mate in public. If you have a problem with him, keep it private. If you stick to this rule, when you DO break it over something major, he will sit up and listen.
Making frequent eye contact, smiles just for him, and asking his opinion will reassure him that you aren't going anywhere. You'll know you've succeeded when he starts suggesting you wear that sexy number you used to wear.
Guys can do this, too. My father never quit looking at pretty girls, but he'd point them out to Mom and then smile like "they may be pretty, but I'm staying right here with you."
2006-09-01 14:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by loryntoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In truth, with much personal experience, he's probably out doing things he doesnt want u doing, and is scared karma will lead u to do it. If u were wearing something as trivial as short pants when u guys met,started dating, got engaged, and its what YOU want to wear, then dont let anyone, even ur Husband slowly change ur character. Does he do everything u ask of him? Do u try to change him? He is jealous................for a reason. But that is his issue, not yours
2006-09-01 13:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the beginning of an abusive relationship. Your husband is being controlling. Pretty soon he is not going to want you to have other relationships...even with family members. Watch "The Burning Bed" with Farah Faucett. Get out while you still can.
2006-09-01 14:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Fonta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he expect you to wear to the beach? Is he controlling? As for the club --- you are his wife, and should be able to go anywhere. Talk to him about everything.
2006-09-01 13:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are beautiful and sexy, probably because he doesn't want other guys lusting after you. However, sounds like we have a double standard here. Why should he go out with his buddies and check out sexy chicks...ah...just dawned on me...he's lusting after other women and thinks all men do. He and his buddies are sitting in the bar saying things like "I'd like to DO that chick!" "Look at the boobs on her!" blah blah blah
2006-09-01 13:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be a little too sexy, honey. If you want to really get his attention, send me an email and I will send you an ebook that has changed my view of men - for the better!!!
Seriously, i will send it to you free.
2006-09-01 13:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do like Martin Lawrence said and put on your f!ck him girl dress (the sexiest dress you own that you know he will not condone) and hit the club hard. It would really tick him off to see you in the same spot he is in.
2006-09-01 14:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be the type that finds you attractive - but doesn't want other men to. He needs to understand that this isn't fair to you. You are a grown woman (I'm guessing) you have already had a mother and father, you don't need another one.
2006-09-01 14:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by just curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is getting jealous lately because you look hot and he feels he does not.As for the clubbing,screw that girlfriend.You should have called up your friends and went with them!Good luck!!!
2006-09-01 13:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by iluvsunsets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋