and she flipped... why? i was only telling her a fact. what is wrong with you women?
2006-09-01 06:44:57 · 27 answers · asked by jay Lo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are well BAD, you'd never be my b/f
flirt and ****
lol
2006-09-01 06:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because she thinks u have a problem with it now. You've made her extremely self-concious, now everytime u guys are having sex or see another hot bodied woman, she will have that comment in the back of her mind. This is all really because she HAS a problem with it. A woman that is totally confident in herself would have told you 3 things: 1) why, I have no problem with my butt, 2)Well maybe it could use a bit of toning but I'll do it when I'm ready or 3) oh u dont like it, too damn bad.
Let her know that she is beautiful, no ones perfect, EVERYONE, even you mister have flaws, she just doesnt point yours out!
2006-09-01 06:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omigod, that is like the worst thing to say to a woman! You just cant say to a woman "ur backside would be firmer if u worked out more" thats an INSULT!! u need serious dating tips asap!
2006-09-01 06:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothings wrong with us, but its hard to deal with criticism from a guy you fancy sometimes. Plus alot of women are paranoid about how their looks are percieved by others. I would try and be a bit more tactful if I were you, or just say you think she has a great ***. I think that this is stuff that you'll learn as you mature, its great to be honest with your partner, but there are good and bad ways of putting stuff!!
2006-09-01 06:52:22 · answer #4 · answered by purpleandroid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every man knows that women do not like to be told anything regarding their body or weight UNLESS it is POSITIVE. That's common sense. Or, at least a "little bit of sense".
2006-09-01 06:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It´s just better to avoid the whole subject of appearances with women, except to pay compliments. It´s a minefield.
2006-09-01 07:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that men can dish it out and can't take it.... mine likes to comment on the gym and wanting me to slim up but when I mention he should look into oral surgery to fix his one bad "snaggle" tooth he flips out.
So it's ok for guys to tell women to lose their fat ars but as soon as we want you to grow some freaken hair on your head... that's a big deal??!!
2006-09-01 06:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did she ask you how to make her butt firmer or were you just suggesting?! She wants to hear that her butt is perfect the way it is not ways to improve. Ouch!
2006-09-01 06:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule number one, don't tell her the truth. If she things she is fat in anyway then she will not be happy with herself and if you then confirm it, then she is not going to be a happy bunny. You need to concentrate on what she wants to here. Rather than telling her the facts.
2006-09-01 06:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by Coley61 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talking about backsides, you sound like quite an asshole.
2006-09-01 06:51:53 · answer #10 · answered by Cowboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sooo agree with hummingbird (I think that's what the name was)
Do you have abs of steel???
Tight butt???
Firm thighs???
Muscular calves??
Ripped arms??
If not, you need to get your butt to the nearest gym and start working on yourself before telling someone that they need to improve.
2006-09-01 07:13:06 · answer #11 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋