there's dis girl i've bin trying to make my friend. She's quite friendly N talks freely with me, but last time i offered to take her out to the movies, she didn't decline, but she never showed up after i've spent my money getting our tickets. And she did'nt even care to give me a call or send an apology. Pls friends, does this girl care for me at all?
2006-09-01 06:23:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well honestly my friend if you have to ask us this question then your obivously blinded by her outter appearence because her personality stands out to me as a person who you are too good for. this is not a person who you need to be friends with, as they say friends like that you dont need no enemies
2006-09-01 06:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by The LuvDoctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-09-01 16:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK this girl didnt even have the decency to pick up the phone for 5 seconds and say "cant make it". Sounds like she took u up on ur offer to avoid hurting ur feelings, or avoiding an uncomfortable situation. It also could be that she's a bit immature and nervous about going out on a date w/ you; shyness. Whatever the reason u deserve an explanation, and an apology for her carelessness, get one. Just cooly and calmly ask her what happened. Say something like: "Missed u the other day what happened?", Tell her u like her and want to know if she feels the same, or are u wasting ur time. Say it nice and calm.
Good luck
I'll go to the movies with u!
2006-09-01 06:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. She may be friendly, but when a woman is interested, she gives chase. In other words, if something happened the night you were supposed to go out, she would have called. this girl was just rude. Take it as a lesson learned...next time, don't ask too quickly. Get a better feel of a girl, (eye contact, smiles, laughing at your jokes, touching, HITTING -{little pat on the arm} is a VERY good thing!)
Don't call her, or even bring up why she played you. Just keep being polite, but limit your conversation with her...especially if you still want her.
2006-09-01 06:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say it but she sounds like she doesn't care much for you, she doesn't sound like a very nice girl if she does stuff like that, your best off without someone like that. Why would you want to chase a girl like that when you could find better. There's plenty more fish in the sea (as they say) just keep looking, don't worry not every girl is like that! Good luck! x
2006-09-01 06:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by missy minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 19:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. sorry to say it, but NO, she definitely doesn't care. unless she shows up with a DAMNED good excuse (like somebody died) you should move on immediately.
which means being a jerk right back to her, and NOT pursuing any further relationship with her at all. not even as friends.
it's the only way to preserve your dignity & self-respect.
2006-09-01 06:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by melon_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say she was just playin,look somewhere else,she isn't into you at all,she is the kind of girl who only wants to be friends but doesn't know how to just come out and say it,she probably did this to get you off her "scent" so to speak,she probably figured if she stood you up you would get the picture,and that way she doesn't have to come right out and tell you you aren't her type
2006-09-01 06:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by onyxpryzm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but if she stood you up and didnt even call to give an explanation, then i dont think she is really in to you.
Plus you dont deserve someone who is going to treat you like that. I would find someone else.
2006-09-01 06:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsey H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you read your question?
2006-09-01 06:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by Laquishacashaunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋