Alright, I met this girl kinda by accident like a couple years ago, and right from the get go we liked each other and we became best friends, and have been best friends ever since then. In the last 2 years or so, we spend every day, all day together. Its very rare to see one of us without the other. And ever since I have met this girl I have wanted her more than anything else, shes beautiful, amazing personality, shes the only person that I can truely stand to be around 24/7. I have brought up the fact that I like her and talked to her about it, and she said she wanted us to be friends. I said thats cool and left it at that. Now a couple years later I still want her more now than anything, I think its almost like I need her, I just dont function properly without her around. Should I tell her again how much I like her and how much she matters to me and that I need her in my life in one way or another? I dont want to make her uncomfortable, I just dont know what to do.....
2006-09-01 06:15:11 · 3 answers · asked by sgtyetzer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, sounds like you are in love. Ok - so you have told her your feelings, now it is time for you to ask how she really feels about you and ask her to be honest. If she is with you all the time then there has to be something keeping her there, maybe she feels the same but just doesn't want to ruin what you guys already have which can be scary for a girl in her shoes. If she doesn't feel the same then I hate to say it - but maybe you guys should not spend so much time together anymore because your feelings aren't going to just magically dissappear.
2006-09-01 06:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by just curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hon, i think that if you're not sure about how she feels then maybe you should ask her. i mean what could it hurt. just drop a hint about how she feels about you... ask something like "so what should i do if i've known this girl and i really care about her but i'm not sure if she likes me that way. should i ask her or just leave it alone." she'll prolley ask who the girl is and you can say she's a really close friend. judging by the way she answers, you can tell if she has feelings for you or not. u can use 'a friend' instead of urself so you won't have to put yourself out on a line. pray about what you should do. god can help you through everything and even though you think it's a small thing, he'll still help you. God loves you! good luck!
2006-09-01 13:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by demonswt88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first see how she feels about u....then tell her
2006-09-01 13:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by wish i could have my navy man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋