Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 months now and its just starting to go down hill. He never calls me when he says he will and he doesn't try to make plans with me. I still like him but i dont know what i should do. do you have any advice?
2006-09-01 06:03:21 · 22 answers · asked by Em 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rekindle the flame of passion.
2006-09-01 06:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you feel about this young man. If you really see potential in your relationship then hold on to it. But if you feel like you have been giving 100% and he is taking you for granted or just not appreciating you then he is a gonner. We as women have to love ourselves before we can love anyone else. By accepting less than we deserve tends to diminish our character. When we feel abused by men sometimes it can bring our spirts down. If that is happening then you really, really, need to let him go. Someone who truly loves you would be a constant upliftance in your life. My sister you better not settle for less. It sounds like you have a kind heart and you just want things to work. Dont you hang yourself up on anybody yet.
Besides, it has just only been 2 months. Ya'll will get over it quick.
2006-09-01 13:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by musiqnique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just tell him that you need someone who will be by your side and who enjoys being with you. That your relationship isnt working out. Or offer him a second chance, say unless you want to start over and try to work something out. like.. we should hang out more and get to know eachother, or you two could go to the movies and then dinner and talk. Theres many possibilities to get to know each other
2006-09-01 13:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a tip, date his best friend!
He will call, then you say, well I got tired of waiting for you, so I made other plans with someone who's more my type, no need to go thru the break up BS, just start dating everyone, no big deal, that's why they call it dating.
2006-09-01 13:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not lookin' too good....TALK to him, first. Ask him whassup. If he hems and haws and evades your questions, then you KNOW somethin's up that ain't good. Your early enough into the dating to end it before you get screwed. Ever hear of that book "He's Just Not That Into You?" ......sounds like the title is about your situation.....Too many "fish in the sea" to waste your time on someone who isn't into ya.....If he was, he'd answer calls, go out on dates, etc. This guy just sounds like he doesn't know how to get out gracefully......whatta chump. I'd be dumping HIM...this isn't what you want.
2006-09-01 13:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jan O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh darling. Get out now. If he never calls you then he aint worth your time or effort. He clearly doesnt know what he has got. A lot of men are like this, you deserve a hell of a lot better. The right one is out there and when you find him he will treat you like a princess!
2006-09-01 13:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in your situation many times. you should call it quits. only because if you keep holding on, or he keeps holding on, it will hurt more when you end it say, a month from now. he isn't worth your time anymore if he is basically telling you he doesn't want anything to do with you by not calling and not making plans.
2006-09-01 13:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Frankel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, thats a question really you can only answer. I would listen to family and those you know care about you. You should never stick to a relationship just to make the other partner happy. You BOTH should be happy still being together.
2006-09-01 13:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by icyhott4urmind 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about making more an effort and see what you can do to spice things up. If that doesn't work, move on. There are tons of guys out there, don't waste your time if its going nowhere and you aren't having any fun.
2006-09-01 13:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing and he called it quits when I tried to save the relationship I would move on now before he dumps you.
2006-09-01 13:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by Dani California 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋