Like yesterday she said i was a nasty gurl and she said cuban gurls are like that so races! cause i had two towels that i only need one i use one for my hair and one for my body like that makes me nasty wat!! Also when i first moved in with my dad she didnt want me there she told my dad for me to go somewhere else. Let me explain this lady is columbian makes 6.15 an hour i make more than her and im 19 and she lives for free at my dad's house. She has plastic surgery from head to toe and she is like 10 years younger than my dad pretty much just with my dad for the money my dad has a small buisness and makes pretty good money. Im really sad cause im a really niice person i swear i dont bother at all and i never make a mess im very clean my mom tells me to kick her asss and fight her and other ppl tell me to tell her off wat do u think i should do?? Also i dont want to move out I want to fix this honestly i want her out. Thanx
2006-09-01 05:35:28 · 19 answers · asked by lola 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should talk to your dad about her first. Tell your dad that she is not treating you right and mention all the names that she has called you. Then, try to have a calm and civilized conversation with your stepmom. Tell her that you don't appreciate the things that she said to you and you want to have a relationship with her. She has absolutely NO RIGHT to tell your dad that you should live somewhere else. You are his daughter and your stepmom should accept that. Talk to both of your parents as well- your dad and your stepmom. You sound like a really nice person and your stepmom doesn't even know you that well. If nothing works out between you and your stepmom, move out. You don't deserve to live in that kind of environment when your stepmom says really mean things to you. I hope my advice helps and I wish you the best of luck.
2006-09-01 05:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why a mom would be sooo, mean. But, I have a step-dad that I absolutely loathe and all I do is ignore him, and only talk to him when I have to. So, try to ignore the rude stuff and pretend she doesn't exist when she says stuff like that- you're 19- she should respect that you are old enough for what you do to be what you want it to be- so two towels being nasty or not- it's up to you.
2006-09-01 16:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont claim the word stepmom my father however has married another woman and she is an asswhole just llike yours but maybe you should sit her down and talk to her and ask her why she does you that way or write a letter you can even talk to your father about it becaue you shouldnt have to fill uncomfortable like that I should know about situations like these but pay her no mind you dont need approval of her because she is the rock that sinks the ship not you
2006-09-01 12:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh a dumb blonde not knowin' what 2 do. dumb ***, if u don't like move yo overgrown @ss out the crib. They got a roof over yo big @ss head & thatz how u do them. 1-U overgrown, 2- u need 2 quit complainin & 3- i treated yo life
P.S don't b no lil sassy @ss white girl tryna treat cuz u will get yo feelins hurt. i got yo answer. if u finna say bogus sh*t then don't say it 2 me. Plus i never said i was ghetto lil sassy @ss white girl would think that.
2006-09-01 13:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by waves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this situation reminds me of cinderella. There are alot of things u can do in this situation. You can fight fire with fire.Kill her with kindness. Talk to your father about how u feel. Or confront her staight up and tell her to keep her rude comments to herself. Look i have a similar situation onty im younger than u and i want to leave that house. what i do is take a deep breath and walk with my head up straight. I dont say nothin to her i just let her say what she wants and stay in my room. l've talked to my father and nothing changed she still calls me out of my name, talk about me and even worse so does my dad. so just sick it out good luck!!!!
2006-09-01 12:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by catwoman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her or tell her to *** off, n then tell her how u feel n that being called nasty n givin u a hard time is starting to make u feel bad n getting annpyed with it. n if she cant exept it then smack her in the face to knocked some sense into her
2006-09-01 12:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by snooppoopaloop69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r a legal adult, consider figuring out if u could live with a friend or something. sounds like a situation that might not be fixable. best of luck to u
2006-09-01 12:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are too nice!! She probably thinks that you are threatening her money tree and she will have to foot the bill for her future surgeries. I say make her life miserable but be discreet so you dad does not find out, If he knows you are trying to run her off it could put a strain on the relationship with your dad.
2006-09-01 12:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by Debbie_in_Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your father and tell him what she´s doing to you....
He is your father and has to belive you and put some end to your hell.......
Your step mom is jellous and she woulk keep making your life awfull till you end up walking out of your fathers house, so don´t give her that privilege...
2006-09-01 12:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by strawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have u spoke to dad about his gf?maybe u should let her kno that thats ur father n he will neva choose her ova u,let her kno where u stand n not to disrespect u
2006-09-01 12:46:44 · answer #10 · answered by Sammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋