My sister is married and today while her husband was at work I dropped by. She was butt naked having sex with her husbands best friend.. her husband treats her like gold and supports her.
This is my sis so I am not sure if I should do anything.
What do think?
PS
He had her bent over the couch.....
2006-09-01 05:20:55 · 35 answers · asked by TIM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay out of it
2006-09-01 05:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil.
That's what i think.
you saw nothing, heard nothing and you should say nothing.
I think it would be a good idea to sit your sis down and have a good long chat. She is obviously unhappy in her current situation. No matter how much her husband is supporting her financially, money cant buy love nor happiness. Even if he is a good man.
At the end of the day, it's not your place to say anything to her husband though. You should never snitch on anyone, family or friends becoz then your messing around in other peoples lives.and you will more than likely be the one to suffer in the end.
Just be there for your sis and try to encourage her to get some help and make a decision about what she wants to do wit her life.
2006-09-01 05:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't want to get caught in the middle... and you don't want to destroy your relationship with your sister...
So I would suggest talking to your sister about it, tell her what you saw and that it's not right.
Tell her that you expect her to do the right thing and stop seeing this guy, stop cheating and stay true to her vows.
Tell her you have lost respect for her over this, but will not say anything. Tell her you hope that she choses to do the right thing and stop cheating on her husband.
Point out all that she is going to lose if she carries it on.
She should see your point of view, and at least make an effort. If she tells you to mind your own business, tell her you will tell her husband if she does not stop the nonsense.
It is hard sometimes to be moral in situations with the immoral, but you have to think about what you would want someone to do if you were the husband.
What would you want someone to do? .... Answer that and you have your answer.
2006-09-01 05:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by princessin_bluejeans 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately...it's none of your business. It may bother you that she is being unfaithful to her husband, but you will just start a major war if you tell him. Not to mention, you wil probably come out as the bad guy if they stay together and your sister may never speak to you again. if it really bothers you that bad, talk to your sister about how you feel. you may not get the results your hoping for but at least you can feel like you did what you could without butting in.
2006-09-01 05:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by bubblz135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her husband sucks in bed! But really I think you should have a good talk with her to figure out what's going on. It's too bad you've been put in the position that something needs to be said, but it should be her who tells her husband what she's been up to.
2006-09-01 05:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by nashiranickel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that I would avoid her at all cost and if her husband ask then let her tell him unless you two are really close as friends and you know he would be pissed if you didn't tell him. But you know the two of them are going to be in chaos now that you caught them and I think that you really have control of the situation right now. I guess that is why they call them best friends lol. Hopefully he doesn't already know it and then you look stupid if you did say something to him lol
2006-09-01 05:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess its none of your business but her happiness is yours and her unhappiness is yours too. Talk to her - if she likes what she is doing and wants multiple partners, then you keep yourself out of it. If she has some points against her husband whom you "feel" is good to her, all family members should get together and talk about it. If her hubby knows and he too acts cool about it, you should ask if this guy has a sis whom you can date :-) Take life as it comes!! Who asked her not to lock the door before having sex? Maybe she wanted someone to walk in!
2006-09-03 15:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter that he had her bent over the couch....
If you are asking a serious question the couch info was not needed.
If it's a serious question, then inform your sister that you witnessed the act (leave out the couch) and see what her response is.
2006-09-01 05:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by Wayne 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is ur sister but if her husband treats her like royality then there's no reason for her to be cheating on him.Far as i'm concerned u should tell him he deserves to know what her and his bestfriend is doing behind his back so definitely tell him u'll feel much better.
2006-09-01 05:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by sexyblakk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have a heart to heart with your sister and convince her to tell her husband of this affair. If that doesn't work, then try appealing to the best friend for him to tell. I don't think it's a good idea for you to tell the husband because it could backfire and damage your relationship with him (and it's not your place to tell the husband).
2006-09-01 05:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by rebecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just what the hell did you do when you caught them.. Did they notice you..
If they did your sister will be ashamed maybe and him running out.not sure do..
If they did not notice you... were you afraid to disrupt their enjoyment.. If so,, did you just left the house.
But if she was my sister, I would have scolded her so much,, both of them,, maybe after they got off the heaven...and tell them you will tell her husband if they do not break up their relationship once and for all.
But that is not a guarantee they will not meet again somewhere..
If you do not like what your sister is doing do something to stop her from doing it again.
If you still have parents, maybe threaten her,, you'l tell them about her cheating.
Are you still very young,,, so much younger than your sister, you were not able to do something...
If so tell your parents,,, but it is still your right and priviledge to confront her if you did not like what she did.
2006-09-01 05:30:49 · answer #11 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋