Well my bf wants hav it bfore marraige. but i dont agree to it. we both hav mis undrstanding over this issue. I strongly belive in marriage! well one thing which i get confsued is: " then why is marriage system is need? ", if we hav all fun bfore marraige itself!
2006-09-01 05:16:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on the individuals. stick to your OWN MORALS and values. good luck
2006-09-01 05:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely OK. No one needs permission from some corrupt government or religious organization in order to live together or have sex with each other. Both are perfectly normal, natural human activities. Not only that, but I endorsed the idea of finding out, before you go through all of the trouble of getting married,
if you are sexually compatible with each other.
That said, if you two are at loggerheads over this, you may want to look at just how compatible your values are with your boyfriend's. It may be none of my business, but I think if you two get married you're headed for trouble down the road.
2006-09-01 08:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by Serginho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should listen to your boyfriend. In fact you should respect him for even going out with you.
Marriage is a lot more than sex. In fact sex becomes less an issue after marriage.
2006-09-01 05:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by surething_78504 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had any respect for you he will take no as no and not need a list of reasons why you want to wait.
Besides if its true love he will wait.
2006-09-01 05:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a personal decision and no one can/should determine what feels right for you. If boyfriend doesn't agree ..don't contort your belief system to accomodate him. Do what feels right for you.
2006-09-01 05:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by ifyewonlyknew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say have sex before you are married. There is nothing worse than getting married and realizing your husband does not satisfy you in bed.
2006-09-01 05:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the bible says it's wrong, but we do what we want to anyway whether it's in the bible or not....
2006-09-01 05:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before is awesome
2006-09-01 05:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRONG WRONG WRONG!!!!!
2006-09-01 05:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by angelkitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is WRONG
2006-09-01 05:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by s3xii9url 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋