2006-09-01 05:12:23 · 7 answers · asked by Aminat A 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Genealogy
Hey Aminat A,
Does she have any Genealogy history for you?
Who are her parents? Theirs? Where are they from?
Those are if you are interested in your ancestry.
The other stuff, should be forgiven - it is in the past, she gave you up and probably gave you a better life for it. She apparently was smart enough to realize she could not raise you, and wanted better. So, focus on what you have in common, stay positive, build the relationship you want.
I posted some web sites, it might be beneficial for you to read what others have experienced in similar situations - instead of what we think. There are forums posted, where you might contact people that have done what you are doing. Articles both positive and negative.
Hope this helps, and I wish you the best.
2006-09-01 06:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by BuyTheSeaProperty 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why? What happened that made you give me up? My father left my mother and I, so I know the feeling somewhat. I would ask my father why? That is all and just listen to her. Do not judge. She probably had a very good reason for doing that. She might have wanted a better life for you and she could not give it to you, so she thought that giving you up for adoption would be the best thing for you. She may have done out of love. You never know.
2006-09-01 13:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry you're confronted with this decision, bur it rather is a decision you the two might desire to make reason fathers have rights too and until he waives his parental rights, you could not place your toddler up for adoption. with the help of how, you probably did not get your self pregnant, it took 2 human beings. you may desire to take a seat mutually and communicate approximately this rationally even with the reality that i understand there are such rather some thoughts in touch. First i could prefer to applaud you approximately questioning approximately what you communicate terrific to your newborn,and you probably did not state your age, yet you sound like a youthful couple. you in addition to mght did not say how some distance you have been into your being pregnant, yet even after the toddler is born you nonetheless have time to alter even though decision you're making in the present day. it rather is this form of heart wrenching and existence changing time for all in touch for each guy or woman worried i'm hoping issues prove o.k., yet with the help of regulation you could not in simple terms place your newborn to be observed without his father's permission..
2016-11-23 17:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would ask her what was the reason?
Did she try to stay in touch?
Did she ever try to find me?
Who is my biological Father?
Where was she at the time?
What was the story of them?
Was she ever sorry?
Did she know where my dad was now?
Had she ever seen/talked to him?
Does she have other children?
Was she the one who named me?
What is she doing now?
Does she want to have a relationship with me?
Do I have grandparents, or relatives?
Can she send pictures? (if far away.)
2006-09-01 05:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
G'day Aminat A,
Thanks for your question.
I would be keen to see how she is going and whether you have any half-sisters or brothers and other family.
I would also reassure her that you are doing well and getting along OK with your other family.
I hope it all goes well for you.
Regards
2006-09-01 05:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask her why she left me, do i have other sibilings i don't know and if she wants a relationship with me.
2006-09-01 05:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat r her interests..wat kind of job she does..basically try to find some common ground. if she has any medical history that you should no about....nd wth waz she thinkin.
2006-09-01 05:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by NY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋