2006-09-01 05:03:43 · 6 answers · asked by Aminat A 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
1. What heredity diseases run in my family
2. When was i born?
3. Is there is anything I can do to help you?
4. Do I have any siblings?
5. Where was I born?
6. Who was my father?
7. Do you have regrets giving me up?
8. How can I keep in touch?
A few questions I would ask If I could.
"A Birthmother puts the needs of her child above the wants of her heart"
Skye Hardwick
founder of "Life Mothers"
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This is a great article related to this topic from Rick Reilly who has an adopted daughter.
http://www.onpointradio.org/features/2006/heartandsoul.asp
2006-09-01 05:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by 34 RIP 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i went looking for my birth mother a few years back i had to go through the agency were i was adopted from,they found her for me but could only tell me a few things about her cos they didnt have her primision to tell anything more.we they contacked her and she was unsure if she wanted to meet me so she asked all her friends and they all said no,it would be a bad idead to do so,im not even sure her husband even knew about me...but the only person who told her she should was her mother...when i heard this i was hartbroken...who wouldnt want to meet their first born...so after i heard that i was unsure if i even wanted to met her...but anyways...i never did meet her but i do have questions i would like to know which would be.....
who is my birth father?
do i have a brother ,sister,both?
is there any medical issues with the family that i should know about?
do u think of my on my birth day? and was there any love for me?
and then i would have a few new questions from when i was looking for her...
why did you have to ask around?
arent you interested in me now that im all grown up and have no need for a new mother?
2006-09-01 14:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by lovedove662000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her
1. Why?
2. Did you ever think about me?
3. Do I have any brother or sister?
4. What happen to my father?
5. Did you try looking for me?
6. Are you happy to see me?
There is a lot of more question that you can ask. Just ask her what comes to mind when you are talk to her. Do stop asking until you are sure that is all that you have to say?
2006-09-01 12:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really have questions, I would tell her how thankful I am that she was unselfish and give me to the best parents anyone could ever have. In fact I know my birth Mother and did just that. One of the most important things you should ask is for medical history. Its important for you to never feel unwanted because like me you are lucky, why? because we were chosen!
2006-09-01 12:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"why did you give me up for adoption"? or "Where's my past years' birthday and christmas present"?
2006-09-01 12:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Was it worth it?
2006-09-05 08:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by la_femme0103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋