My GF wears her hair braided and I can't stand it. I am a very conservative guy, and I like dating women with certain common interests. A conservative hairstyle is one of them. What should I do? Should I stay with her despite my disatisfaction with her hairstyle or should I accept the fact that it doesn't balance with my conservative lifestyle? I know it's petty, but I'm trying to be realistic about it.
2006-09-01 04:12:47 · 22 answers · asked by midnitewolfer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her you don't like it.
What do you have to lose if you're considering leaving her over it anyway.
2006-09-01 04:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Grow up and get off this conservative lifestyle kick. As long as it is nice and neat let her where her hair how she wants. Just who the hell are you trying to impress? The way her hair looks has nothing to do with your conservative lifestyle. If you really care about her let her do her and you do you. Man up and spend less time worrying about impressing people and trying to be or have everything so perfect. Or just tell her that you are self centered and ashamed of her because of her choice of hairstyle and move on to someone that will fit into your little fairytale life. Good Luck
2006-09-01 04:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know i went throught a hair problem too, i got wavy hair and i usually wear it in a pony tail, i was dating this guy who out of the blue told me he hated the way i look in a pony tail and i should not wear my hair like that when i was with him. i dumped him at the spot, because there were other ways that he could have told me that. Plus Hair Issues come on that was stupid. Tell her that you think she would look beutifull in other type of hair due or something like that. But please don't take the hair thing too seriosly, other wise you are going to end up alone, cause all girls change their hair all the time.
2006-09-01 04:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by lluvia2wcc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are correct...it is petty.
What matters to you more...beauty on the outside or beauty on the inside? Weigh the pros & cons of your relationship.
When you see a hairstyle you like...tell her you think it would look great on her.
Hairstyles come and go .....but a good woman is a rare treasure!
2006-09-01 04:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by shortfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just her hair. I mean if you really like her then it shouldn't matter. I would think you would want her to be herself.
another thing...women change hairstyles all the time. She'll probably change it anyway. Maybe next time you see a girl with the kind of hair you like, you could say "wow I think you would look beautiful with hair like that" and mention how you would love to be able to run your fingers through it.
2006-09-01 04:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im a little confused. you claim to be conservative, yet you view a braid as liberal? in what respect are you trying to get her to be conservative? what kind of hairstyle do you want her to have? i feel that in this issue you're being a little bit unreasonable and that her hairstyle, as is, is not grounds for breaking up. i'd discuss it with her first, and see where things go.
2006-09-01 04:15:48 · answer #6 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you met her with her hair braided, then why is it a problem now! You need to get over yourself. I am pretty sure there are somethings about you she doesn't like. So leave it alone. If she likes it, then that is all that matters. She shouldn't change herself for you. What she needs to do is move on to bigger and better men, if the one she has is looking at her with disgust!
2006-09-01 04:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you guys love each other, then just tell her how you feel and she should understand. If she's not willing to change her hairstyle for you, then she's not the girl for you.
2006-09-01 04:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey!!!
Well, i think her hair should be the least of your problems. But if you are still dating her then there is something great you find attractive. So just weigh out the pros and cons
2006-09-01 04:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by Bittersweet_emotions 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Agree to disagree?
Talk to her about it. It's probably just a lot easier for her to wear her hair that way.
2006-09-01 04:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Isabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its weird and wonderful she hasn't observed it herself and already had it finished. Theres rather no elementary thank you to pass approximately it. you're able to desire to attempt and characteristic somebody else tell her. or only come out and say it your self. only dont make relaxing of her, she'll probable sense fairly embarrassed already.
2016-10-01 04:23:25 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋