i'm in this situation": i mean that i have to choose just one way from 2:
education and getting master degree in law.
and staying with the guy that i really love.
i can't chooze either.
if u were in my shoe, what would u do?
2006-09-01 04:11:18 · 23 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you have to choose. You shouldn't have to choose. Is he threatening to break it off if you go to law school? If so, then it may be for the best that you break up because though you love him he may not be supportive enough for you and what you are about to engage in. From what I've been told law school can be intense and requires serious commitment so you don't need any friction or drama in your life. If there is any I suggest you deal with it before you begin law school. Go for the education. Life is fast paced, as a friend of mine once said, and you may only have one shot at doing this. In life things come up and you get side tracked so do it now while you have the time and desire to achieve it. If your BF really cares and wants the best for you he will support your decision, and if it is meant to be he will be there for you throughout.
2006-09-01 04:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by midnitewolfer 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you better choose education---guys come and go. Your education will carry you further. Don't be a fool. He's not the right one if you have to choose. Also, if he is the right one, the universe has a way of working things out. You will be with who you are meant to be with! I chose education and I'm glad, because my first love ended up betraying me, and then I met my husband in graduate school. I am so greatful for the help i rec'd from the universe and the wisdom i gained.
2006-09-01 04:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're almost done the law degree, and you actually want it, then keep doing that until you finish. Short answer though would be that if I truly knew that someone was "the" person for me, I'd throw out education in a second. But life doesn't work that way, sometimes. There's always a long distance relationship until you're done.
2006-09-01 04:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you have to chose? Can't you date your guy and get a masters? People do it all the time and successfully might I add. But if I did have to chose, I'd get the degree as it's what puts food on the table (if you get a job that is) and it's security you need not a bed mate. But the ultimate decision is what are YOU willing to give up and no one but you can answer that question.
2006-09-01 04:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step one- Be certain you really love him. If you're sure you do, stay with him. Love isn't something you can pick up and drop when you want to. I'd rather regret not getting a degree than not taking advantage of being in love when it was there. Step two- decide what you really want from life. Do you get more satisfaction from personal accomplishments or from sharing everything with others?
2006-09-01 04:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy you think you really love, really does love you, then he should and will support you in whatever descision you make. and if you can't be with him while getting your master degree in law, then if he really really does love you, you both will be able to wait for each other. education is extremely important and i think you should pursue your dream for law and then come back to him when the time is right. good luck!
2006-09-01 04:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by babygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about both? But, it has to go education and then love. Education will stay with you forever, men are NEVER guarantees.
2006-09-01 04:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Education, if the guy really loves you he will wait and if you love him you will wait. There is no guarantee that this guy and you will stay together if you choose him.
2006-09-01 04:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by Lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Education.
Does he really love you, or love you as much as you love him? Why would he make you choose between love and education, which are both important?
2006-09-01 04:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try you should be able to find a way for both,but for sure go after your master.
2006-09-01 04:15:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋