because it think the only reason he told me that because he thinks i'm easy! but know i'm parneoid because he lives in a toattly different state than me and there is this one girl who has been flirting with him! and everytime he sends me an e-mail or something it only has a few letter the most is normally 10 in count! and now he hasn't e-mailed or talked to me since august 2nd 2006!!!!!!
2006-09-01 03:58:06 · 22 answers · asked by Dahlia B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget about the guy!
just move on
2006-09-01 04:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he "loved" you, you wouldn't be feeling this way would you. If he loved you there would be no other girl "flirting" with him and you would get a whole lot more than an e-mail dated back a month ago, and there would have been a lot more then 10 words. Quit sitting around waiting for him. Find someone else that will treat you right. By the way, long distance relationships, NEVER work! It's easier to have a 30 yr marriage than it is to have a long distance relationship. Good luck, and I hope you find someone worthy enough of you!
2006-09-01 11:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by shoes4me8888 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Love" isn't in words. Take the "I think" out of your question above, and you have your answer. We always know our own answer, but it sometimes takes help to pull it out. You're unsure because you know you're easy. You're easy because you're unsure about whether or not you have anything of value to offer. Work on your own accomplishments. Then you won't feel like waiting around for a phantom's approval. Suck it up. You made a mistake. Be more discriminant from now on.
2006-09-01 11:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by georgia b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with him. He's just immature. Find someone who lives near you b/c if you try to continue this relationship that isn't really happening you will find yourself miserable. I bet he's just makin sure you're not hangin out with any other guy. He wants to keep you in check. The more you ignore him the better. Do what he does to you. Boys don't like that, but they think its okay to do it to girls. Naw sweety you keep ur head up and be strong. Don't let him bring you down and go out with other guys.
2006-09-01 11:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by â?¥Dancing Queenâ?¥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real love is not being reflected in communicating or sending long letters or email.and would not be effected if you both live in two different places.
All you have mentioned has nothing to do with his love to you.I think he loves you ,But you need to give up being jealous and give him a chance to express his love frankly .
2006-09-01 11:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by anwar a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats a long time. I talk to my female friends more than that. I would forget it. No need to stress over it. But if you still want to give him a chance next time you talk to him try talking to him about anything non sexual. If he starts getting frustrated and doesnt want to talk then Id end it with him. You could get way better.
2006-09-01 11:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the answer to your question is DUMP HIM NOW..
IT WONT WORK AND YOU WILL BE THE ONE THAT GETS HURT NOT HIM..
think more of yourself and be proud of who and what you are thre are better guys out there for you than this jerk, try having a friend closer to home.. forget the long distance stuff. good luck and find some happiess at home area.
2006-09-01 11:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You believe it when someone just tells you he loves you? Just those three words and no other behaviour or signs to show love? When he loves you, he will do things for you, respect you, cater to your needs, look for opportunities to contact you and go out with you. So, do you still think he loves you?
2006-09-01 11:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me your way to paranoid to even be thinking of being in a relationship. I would consider some serious "Me" time to build up that self esteem issue darling.
2006-09-01 11:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was lying. If he really loved you, he wouldn't have let a month go by without talking to you. He was just trying to play you and you didn't fall for it. Good for you!!! Forget him.
2006-09-01 11:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by T.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no boyfriend ever loves u.call him now 2 meet u.& ask him to marry u or tell him that u want achild of urs through him.if he respects ur wish he loves u.
2006-09-01 11:08:23 · answer #11 · answered by mitri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋