hey, i need to know this... i am leaving in a few hours to go to a different state, i am leaving my hometown since birth (18 years).. i am terrified, but i have always wanted to do this... i told my mom last night, which i know it was short notice, but still. i am telling my friends today..
i am afraid i am making the wrong decision, b/c it also requires leaving my friends/family/church family...
if you were me, would you continue and go??? if i do go it will cause some financial trouble with my family... but i may also miss my dream if i stay... though it is not for sure if my dream is there... but i need to know something...
so please help...
2006-09-01 03:54:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't stop now. You have to follow through or no one will take you seriously at your word. You can always come back. Time to spread those wings.
2006-09-01 03:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by georgia b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you have a plan in place: a place to live, a job or means of supporting yourself, etc. If you're not going very far (say, a trip you have to take by plane), you can visit often and leave nothing behind.
If this is a spur of the moment decision and you have nothing planned, you're either very courageous or very stupid (no offense intended, honest, just thinking of your well-being). Consider at least postponing your move if you don't have a sensible plan.
Incidentally, you're not wrong to want to move on and pursue something outside the life you've known to date. Your family and friends should not hold that against you either.
2006-09-01 04:04:24 · answer #2 · answered by nyboxers73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it for a short while your dream may not be in the other state but if you don't go will you regret it? the financial trouble this will cause your family etc may be forgotten quickly once they find out that you are indeed happy or you may find a way of sending some cash to help the family out in the short term, ask them if they fancy taking in one of your friends to stay with them and pay your family some lodging fees this will help them out wouldnt it ?
Your faith will travel with you join the local church of your religion where you move to and you will be welcomed with open arms and a warm heart into their comunity
2006-09-01 04:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, Go! Your family and friends will always be at home if you need them. Follow your heart and GO! Your friends my be a little unhappy, but they'll understand in the long run. Home will always be home, trust me. I've been there/done that! I've never regretted moving several hours from home to pursue a college degree (my dream). You may regret not going and finding out if it is really what you wanted. So, GO!
2006-09-01 04:02:38 · answer #4 · answered by nmtgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue on and go...
do you want to grow up and leave, or grow up and grow roots? Journey onward sweetie, stick with your decision. Otherwise you will spend the rest of your life agonizing over "what-ifs...." and you will certainly spend the rest of your life and grow old and die in that one town, which I'm not sure if you really wish to do
you've answered your own question. The decision is made. Any fears you have now, are secondary and come from doubts and second-guessing. Journey on and discover, because change is a part of life.
2006-09-01 04:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Fancy Pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should go when ur ready. U always have ur home to come bacc to bu make sure u have enough money to come bacc if anything happens. I think u should go because u only live once. What if this is ur dream? Then ur'll be glad u went but if it turns out not to be your dream then this will be a story to share when u have kids and a memory u wont forget. GOOD LUCK !!!
2006-09-01 03:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lu-Lu - hopelessly romantic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do pursue your dreams. i feel that if you do not find out what you want to know, you will only end up resenting your family one day.
i believe they will be able to manage the financial part, and you can always help them in a little while right? you just need some time out.
good luck and take good care.
2006-09-01 03:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by ash 7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, your an adult now so you have to start deciding what is important to your future. We all have to do it eventually and sometimes the opportunity that presents its self is a one time thing and you just have to go for it. I know it will be hard on you and on the ones you love but just because your leaving doesn't mean that you forget the ones you love or love them any less. Embrace this moment and cherish the adventure but also cherish the memories you have made up to this point.
2006-09-01 03:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You *just* told your mom last night that you're leaving? Honey, at this point I'd keep moving forward, because that's a pretty big bomb you just dropped there, and you'd be ducking fallout for a good long time even if you did chicken out and stay in your hometown.
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2016-09-30 05:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋