I have a boy-friend. We've been dating for a little over 2 months. never get to see him.I love him with all of my heart. What should I do?
2006-09-01 03:32:03 · 16 answers · asked by †Emily† 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1)before anything u should make up ur mind , do u want to contine with him ? or not ? to find this out the best solution i recommend to all my friends is get a paper and write down all the things u like about him and on the other side of the paper write all the things u don't like about him or about the relationship after doing so look at the things that u dont like and see can u change any of them if u can fix some of them cross them out ,then see the rest of the things that u don't like and see can u tolarte them or not and then make a comparsin between the prons and the dislikes and then after diciding if u want to contine with this relationship or not?
2)coming to the second part of ur question how to break up with him , there are two ways but i prefer the first one but feel free to do any of them ,a)confront him and tell him that i sat down with my self and there is 1,2,3.... things i dont like about u or the relation we are in if you can change them i will be more than happy to stay in this relationship if not then i am sorry i can't put up with this and it's better that we have figured out now before it was to late and i hope that there are no hard feelings and i wish u all the best on finding ur sole mate but i don't think it's going to work out between us
b)the second way thats if u dont wanna hurt his feelings is making him dislike u change ur atitude and let him break up with u instead of u breaking up with him just to leave him with some pride infront of his friends
2006-09-01 03:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by ashrampox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him with all your heart and you have only been dating for two months. You sound a little young. If you dont ever see him more than likely he doesnt want to see you. I would move on. Find someone who wants to see you and make an effort to see you. Dont do all the work. Make him beg!!
2006-09-01 10:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by krsha79 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing quite like that feeling of being honest, with yourself, to others for you, for them-for the best
If you love him, then don't sit back and wait-missed chances can become a sneaking feeling of regret-don't miss a chance if it feels right but always be honest with your heart, for you with others then you don't have to discover what regret is because you are following what you believe in
2006-09-01 10:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by WW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really is up to you. If you think he is a good investment for your time and effort then continue with what you are doing. If not talk with him about it and if nothing can be resolved tell him you think it best if you both went your separate ways.
2006-09-01 10:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Just cut all communication. Dont reply his messages or answer his calls. He'll get the idea sooner or later. Or maybe he has dumped you already by ignoring you.
2006-09-01 10:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes putting you in a position where you cant see him then ur wasting your time.. try to arrange days where you can hang out but if that doesnt work find someone who is willing to take the time to make time with you
2006-09-01 10:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him so much try to see him, set up some dates that you both can see each other.
2006-09-01 10:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first. Be open with him. Tell him what you want and what he wants. Then decide if you want to continue the relationship.
Respect each other!
2006-09-01 10:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by rhanz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about your problem, if it's just he's too busy hanging out with guys, then make sure he spends more time with you. If it just isn't working, then I'm sorry to say it is over
2006-09-01 10:37:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either stick with it if it will get better or just move on. 2 months isnt that long shouldnt be too hard.
2006-09-01 10:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by rogdogg187 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋