Why do I.......?

Question

have trouble attracting the right man. Is it my looks? Please give me your advice.

Answer 1

maybe you need a little bit make up, you go and start talking to men and try to be a friend, don't rush just wait for a right man who respects you.

Answer 2

Seems to me, your biggest problem is, like most women you hope to attract the right man rather than choosing the right man. You only can pick between the ones that came up to you and made a move, which really limits your selection. It's like wanting an apple and waiting for one you like to fall out of a tree. If you know what you want, go for it. And no it doesn't make you look desperate. It makes you look confident and hence, more attractive. And men are really easy. Most of the time, all you have to do is make it known that you are interested and we will do the rest. You can ask US out and WE WILL PAY. And any half decent looking girl can very well have her pick, so a pretty one really shouldn't have a hard time. Just walk up and say hello.

Answer 3

I'm sorry I cant answer that without seeing you. But you may be failing to attract the right man because of the signals you are giving off. If you have low self confidence that maybe the answer. Love and respect yourself and love will come your way

Answer 4

Well sis, it goes like this.........

If you look in the mirror, and it shatters.....It's your looks.

But it could be something else.

Do you bathe regularly?
Do you wear clothes that the homeless would throw away?
Does your perfume, kill your neighbours pets?

As you can see, there are many reasons why you may not be able to attract the right man.

But don't worry, you'll find the right guy some day.

G O O D . L U C K

Answer 5

It could be a number of things but to most men looks are everything.
Weight, height, facial structure, personality. And more, So i say just be yourself and you will find someone soon, or they will find you.
Be happy that your single, enjoy it because when you have a partner you have to concider what their needs might be as well as yuor own.
Because i don't know you I can't give you any other advice.
Hope this helps good luck.

Answer 6

First you must know what sort of man are you looking for?
Then look at yourself and your behaviour. Do you think your character and behaviour will attract the type of men you are looking for? If not, then you may have to change your approach. The approach must suit them.

Answer 7

They say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and "beauty is skin deep". I know it all sounds like platitudes but it is true in my view. It isn't what you look like, it is what is inside - personality, attitude, views, deeds - that really matters. So don't fret - you probably aren't unattractive anyway. even if you may think you are. Just be yourself and try to include being - open, honest, kind, hardworking and (largely) sensible - to guarantee getting what you want out of life.

Answer 8

Well since I don't know what you look like, I can't answer that question. But, the "right" man wouldn't really care too much about your looks. Don't you think?

Answer 9

I think it is the way you carry youself. If you are looking for a man of commitment, you should behave prim and proper like a decent lady and not like some ****. If you are looking for fun, dress to kill.

Answer 10

Guys are not attracted to girls who try to hard to get something especially guys. Dont try to hard, just be yourself and wait, the right guy will come along in due time.