I think women that HAVE to work end up being a bit resentful because they miss out on things with their children. They have to hand their kids over to daycare or baby sitters, basically paying someone else to help raise their child. When the woman gets home from work she is tired and irritable, not the best she can be to spend time with her children and husband. Intimate relations in the marriage suffer as well as nurturing time with the children.
2006-09-01 03:27:55
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answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7
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well, we are living in a world which is growing highly gender sensitive. This is good. The two sexes male and female are a free gift from God to humanity. Good role distribution among men and women is today the order of the day.
Women are the mothers and are endowed with the motherly affection that is indispensable for upbringing of children at their earl years. When women go working they should not compromise this essential aspect of their very nature,
2006-09-01 03:35:59
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answered by FUNDI 1
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You are in so much trouble here.Women have ALWAYS WORKED. Way back when we where farmers the women worked canning,cooking making clothing,but it was a closed system,there was no money that passed,no your job is worth this much and my job is worth that much. The main problem with women working outside the home is that they are STILL EXPECTED TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ALL THE HOUSEWORK not doing it all but making shure that it all gets done,keeping track of who has to be where when,of all socail contacts,of all the caretaking of parents ect.women have always bean doing more hours then men,but now with working in a more formal scedualed system they can add the hours together more honestly and say I put in 40 at work,
2006-09-01 03:34:34
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answered by blondecarpenter@sbcglobal.net 2
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Well, all I know is I stay home. We have an eight month old. and a 6 year old. And we struggle. We barely can pay our bills on one income alone. Maybe if I did go get a job we would be alot better off. I just thought that since I had these kids it was my job to raise them not a sitter. Butttt, In this day and age with everything so expensive I am going to be FORCED to go get a job just so we can survive. and We use no form of WELFARE or ASSISTANCE.
2006-09-01 03:54:23
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answered by missieeeG 2
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I'm sure that there are many disadvantages to a family when mom works, but most families today can't make it on only one salary. In the old days it was easier for Mom to stay home since there wasn't as many consumer products on the market that everyone must have these days. Ex: computers,cell phones,vido games,etc,etc.
2006-09-01 03:28:21
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answered by I'manalienfrog 5
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Since woman have got their rights and I am not talking about all women.They have lost a lot of respect and are not appreciated like they should be . It's increased the divorce rate , added drastically to juvenile crime , doubled the unemployment rate . Caused inflation .Abortion,premarital sex and a lower moral standards in America . Now you know how President Bush fills Ladies.I do very much applaud the ladies who still take care of there homes and care more for there family than themselves. Its a very big job that you have.Recently one of my son's wasn't behaving himself as a gentleman around a young lady . When I reprimanded him for his behavior he told me she wasn't a lady and that I should hear her talk . Latter he told me just about all girls talk vulgar.This is nothing less than a poor example being thought to young girls and sooner or later it will all catch up with us .And the job you thought was so important won't be important at all .And Ladies you might think me to be a chauvinist pig but the blame for all this comes right back to a bunch of spineless men who where to lazy to be good husbands and fathers.
2006-09-01 03:55:18
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answered by don_steele54 6
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I am a stay-at-home mom and I work part time. I chose only to work part time because I wanted to be home to raise my son most of the time. I chose to do this, because I feel that if I chose to work, I wouldn't be there for him when he needs me and I won't be able to be the one to teach him what he needs to learn. Don't get me wrong, staying home isn't all fun and it doesn't mean I'm financially well off. I have a husband that works a full-time job and we have to find ways to make the extra $$$ , because we cut back on a lot of stuff in order for me to stay home.
I think the mother's role is very important in the home. She's the one to teach her children right from wrong, she's there to basically reassure her children she is there for them and make sure they are taken care of. I've seen many children whose moms work full-time, wishing they would see their mothers at home on a regular basis. (I hear this from children because I'm a substitute teacher) And I also believe moms lose that precious time of not seeing their children grow, because they're only young for so long.
I don't want to put down the mother that is required to work in order to put food on the table for her kids, that's not what I'm saying. If a mother has an option to stay at home, I think she should, just as long as she has a husband/boyfriend is working. And for the moms that do have husbands/boyfriends who are working and still need to make ends meet, then I totally understand. But again, for those who can stay home and can cut corners to be able to stay home, then I say be with your children for as long as you can.
2006-09-01 03:38:36
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answered by bornagain 2
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I think in alot of cultures they way the world is now...as nice as it would be to have women stay at home, it's become financially impossible...but then, after the cost of daycare...they'd have to have to have a helluva job to be able to afford to make any money on top of the daycare.....=( Don't think it was women going to work that is a problem...think it's the cost of living.
2006-09-01 04:27:00
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answered by justwonderin' 3
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1 major disadvantage women have is lower wages most woman work to pay for daycare it makes it hard for me because i work nights so i dont have to pay for this child care but in exchange i dont see my husband so it messes up my family life .
2006-09-01 03:28:09
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answered by the ole ball and chain 4
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it hasn't led to any "confusion" Woman can multi-task also...
2006-09-01 03:26:43
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answered by Anonymous
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