After 4 years of trying to make things work, I finally found the courage to end my relationship with a man I really love. He was always a player, here on the net and with women in our own town. I got a diamond 3 years ago and we talked marriage the whole time, two weeks ago he wanted to marry me, he said he was so ready now and promised me I would be his one and only. I ended everything, I knew it would never work. I wrote and told him I love him, he was all I ever wanted but because of his playing ways I knew I would never be the only one. He was with a new woman the night we split!! yea, that night, I just wrote and asked him to say goodbye and said I would always love him, he wrote back, mad as could be and told me he was NOT alone and to stay the --- out of his life. Is it possible he is so upset because he does still love me and mad he can't have me?
2006-09-01 03:18:39 · 13 answers · asked by wonderin2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is upset because you left him and he had a good thing going. However is you say he was a player, he probably was with some other girl to not think about you. once a player always a player
2006-09-01 03:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by ajatur 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
all man a different mate but yes he could be mad at you because you were the one that left him, or at the same time, he could just be a player, i would forget him cause when the time is right, u will love another ok, but some man say they love us but be with someone elce the next night, but women can be like this to, i no how you feel trust me but i would just try and forget him, go out with your mates and meet another , you never no whats around the corner
2006-09-01 03:25:33 · answer #2 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be away from contacts for two months. Do not contact or try to know what is doing. Thinking him u should not go mad. U will come to know the truth after some time.
2006-09-01 03:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by chandra m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, no. He is not so upset about leaving you that he picked up another girl. Women are emotionally based (we run on emotions), while men are GOAL ORIENTED based (they run on sex or control). Even though deep down you know he is a player, you still want to believe all of his lies about you are the only one. That's exactly how to tell that he is an extremely good player - if he actually tricks you (and other girls) into believing him.
2006-09-01 03:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by ps 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like he never truly loved you! if he was able to go and be with another woman that night then i say just let him go!! time will heal your hurt and pain!! I PROMISE!! you deserve so much better than that! you deserve someone who is willing to be faithful to you even if the two of you get into an argument! good luck in life and trust me- love will come to you in good time!
2006-09-01 03:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by scott's wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u answered ur own question in ur first 2 sentences you wrote..his a player..had gurl the whole time he was wit u..so when u dumped him..he already had the next 1 lined up
2006-09-01 03:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by too_much_11434 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that's his own problem for being a player and that he couldn't be trusted, I say you did the right thing for ending the relationship with him.
2006-09-01 03:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding !!! he asked you to marry him and you dump him!!! and you still say you love him !!! come on you broke his heart poor man, you are facking idiot woman, from here I tell your man good luck in finding a new life partner and marry her and have alot of kids. And you? you deserve to be alone !!!!
2006-09-01 03:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he was playing you, that is not showing love at all. if i was with you i would be with you and only with you.
2006-09-01 03:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a player
2006-09-01 03:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by sazzybmt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋