My sister and I talked at each other....she told me that why does no one having a crush on her in school. She told me that, i am lucky coz when i was at her age, someone has a crush on me...even asked me if i want to be their girlfriend....when i was in elementary and high school up until now that i am in college. I told her that...it's impossible that no one have been attracted to her....coz i read in a book....that every man is attracted to woman...no matter what they look like.... I told her that may be the one who have a crush on her was afraid to tell to her what they feel. I don't want her to feel that she is not attractive....she is graduating in high school.
2006-09-01 02:59:41 · 18 answers · asked by Angeline_Love16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are three types of men. The shy type. The blunt type. And the $lut type.
The Shy type seems like the kind that would go for your sister, because they're afraid to express their feelings for a person because they do not want to be rejected. I was this way when I was younger...and for good reasons mind you. The girl that I had a crush on in high school was a dominatrix type. *ouchies*
The blunt type, which you experienced, will come flat out and tell a girl that they have a crush on them. Typically, they go for the more outgoing and extremely spontanious girls.
The $lut type...well...that's self explaniatory. No girl wants a guy that falls into this category. Just like a guy doesn't want a girl that falls into this category.
My honest advice is to tell your sister that the guy who has a crush on her is just too shy to admit it. He's probably intimidated by her beauty, or her smarts, or just flat out afraid of admitting his feelings for fear of getting hurt.
2006-09-01 03:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by IceStorm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where is it written "that every man is attracted to woman"? She should consider it a blessing that the guys aren't attracted to her. And she should concentrate on her studies and building her character and integrity. Then, these attributes will attract a man that loves her for more than her external beauty. And she can build a bond of love in marriage with him that will last.
2006-09-01 10:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by careerslacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a tricky one.. and ive been there.
the problem is, at such a young age, talks like "but looks aren't everything" , and "ofcourse ur pretty" just won't be as convincing.. do they ever be? i doubt it.
tell her this:
"maybe i had guys approaching me, but where r they now?" but if u found the one or in a serious relationship with a guy say this:
" they are all gone.. and moved on, now i met (the love of my life/a great guy )thats better than all the rest "
besides, its not how many guys flirt with u or have a crush on u..
its how many guys that LOVe u and YOU also love them back.
2006-09-01 10:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kolera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably cause most the guys around her age are immature. Thats how they all are. So Just reassure her that she is pretty..but don't make it look like you have to force it upon her to tell her all the time. the right guy is out there..probably just not in her school
2006-09-01 10:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that there is someone dying for her but she didn't noticed and the guy is still ready to love her till da end and that guy is me. though we are little far from each other but there is nothing love annont do. it's matter of time will get to know each other and love each other the da end. u can give her my ID ejizionite4real@yahoo.com am single and ready to mingle.
2006-09-01 10:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by Peace G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is still too young to be tied down, to be independent now that she has a chance. Concentrate on school first!
2006-09-01 10:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister to chill. Pressure on being "crushable" might drive the guys away.
2006-09-01 10:04:21 · answer #7 · answered by daffythecoolestduck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just reassure her that she is beautiful. Tell her that good true honest love is worth waiting for and that when she least expects it she will fall in love!
2006-09-01 10:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by hebe935 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that life really starts AFTER high school!
2006-09-01 11:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by Little Bit the Ferret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her shez beautiful if not physically itz whatz in tha inside that counts
2006-09-01 10:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by *Lime Green* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋