I do not like porn at all. I really do not like my boyfriend watching it to yank off--but as long as it is put up and he doesnt mention it, I am ok.
But he said I am the only girl who hates porn..am I? Am I wrong to tell him not to bring that stuff around me.
I am not uptight---I just had a whole bunch of bad experiences with that stuff (my dad was severeky addicted to porn) and I do not want to see it or hear about it.
2006-09-01 02:44:46 · 31 answers · asked by cookies_n_cream0218 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think porn can mess up the way men view sex and women.
I want to think that when I am with my man he is attracted to me and not some vision of a fake woman he has saw on porno.
Besides, some serial murders started out this way, really! Ted Bundy started out this way. Porno has the potential to be very, very dangerous.
It also makes it hard for a men to stay in a stable relationship because of the way it changes his perception of females.
2006-09-01 02:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by sweet smile 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-19 20:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lizzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me a ******* break. If you hate porn then you really are just insecure about yourself. Let me tell you if your man or woman loves porn and you don't cause your insecure guess what why in the hell would they be with you in the first place? For all you people out there that think how can they lower themselves shut the **** up. You have sex all the ******* time and that is what porn is sex. Mind you not everyone will try some of the things in them but some people do and love it. So if you don't like it, don't look at it and find someone that don't either.
2006-09-01 02:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I watch porn, but not everyday. Not even every other day. But my husband used to look at it every day and because I was insecure and had some left over baby fat from my pregnancy, I flipped out and told him not to look at it. He hasn't since and doesn't seem to care. I know he hasn't because I'm more computer savvy and know how to check these things.
Now, with that being said, in the beginning of our relationship, we used to watch porn together all the time. We used to go to the video store and spend serious time picking out the right tape. We still go to strip bars together.
I guess you have to be secure in yourself and your relationship. If you're insecure or worried your man will stray, then you would not be cool with porn. If you're confident and know your man is just a lustful creature and the porn is just eye candy, then you won't mind as much.
Now, if it gets excessive, then that's a problem. Good luck.
2006-09-01 03:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sadly you are not the only woman who gets her panties in a bunch over porn. There really is nothing to worry about but for some reason you ladies just can't stand to let a guy have some fun with it.
So here are your choices:
1. Find a guy that's NOT into porn (Yeah good luck with that)
2. Tell your guy that your not down with it and to enjoy it when your not around.
3. Stay single forever!
Face it guys like porn. We love it, that's just the way it is. Whatever guy you get with is most likely going to have it, and if you marry you'll just have to find a happy medium. To ask a guy to give up his porn simply because you don't like it is simply selfish. It's like asking a woman to give up shopping every weekend because she just went last weekend!
2006-09-01 02:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm not crazy about porn myself, your boyfriend should respect your wishes not to have the stuff around as long as he doesn't get addicted to it. So as long as he doesn't make you feel guilty because you're not in to watching porn it will be o.k. You don't have to like something just because your boyfriend does. Don't change who you are or what you feel.
2006-09-01 02:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by melbow35 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know what? When a person is confidant that his/her mate is faithful and loves them, what is the worry? I know that there are lots of times that I am horny and I want to get laid and porn is my only option as my boyfriend is gone. He loves porn and watches it frequently. he's a dirty guy though, which is why I date him in the first place. Dont get too hung up on it, and try watching it with him! I mean, really let go of your inhibitions and scare the hell out of your man. He will dig it!
I dont know how anyone could resist a good porn. I recommend Jenna Jamesons "Flashpoint".
2006-09-01 02:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think porn is okay in a relationship as long as it doesn't take away form you, ie him not wanting to have sex with you because he's watched porn all day.
If you're uncomfortable about porn, then you have every right to tell him not to bring it around you!
If he really loves you, he will respect your wishes.
Good luck.
2006-09-01 02:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by Heather J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No absolutely not, the world is so open with porn that society has grown to think is is o.k. It hurts more relationships than most people know. Why do so many people hid it "under the bed" if it's o.k. Peace
2006-09-01 02:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by Patty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like it, he should respect it. Don't let him get you into something you don't like. No, you are not wrong to tell him that. If he won't respect your wishes with the porn, what's next...??? You have pride in what you believe in. Nothing wrong with that. Again, he should respect your wishes about the whole thing...
2006-09-01 03:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by dolphinman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋