i want to dump my boyfriend, but i want to really hurt his feelings! im not just a mean person, he deserves it. ive known him for ages and we have been going out for a while.hes been lieing to me about important things, and the only reason i find these thing out is by investigating myself. he also is constantly flirting with my friends and i know he fancies two of them. ANYWAY,i want to get as much revenge as possible as i know that he will end up goin out with one of my friends as soon as i dump him, so i need payback for that too. also dumpin him cos he makes me feel so **** and worthles. i know i deserve better,but i want to make sure he gets what he deserves.
any suggestions?
2006-09-01 02:42:15 · 38 answers · asked by giggle.bunnyz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1.cut small holes in his favourite trousers in the crotch area
2. accidently on purpose pour a really staining drink like red wine on one of his favourite light coloured tops in front of his mates
3. kiss a random guy right in front of him and say he kisses better than your boyfriend.
4. whenever in the future you see him chatting up a lass tell her that he gave you an sti like chalmydia and he doesnt believe it was him so he has been for a check up.
goodluck act like your happy and confident whenever you see him afterwards (even if your not) and dont take him back whatever he tells you. he wont change.
2006-09-01 02:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I know you may not want to hear this but, just dumping him is enough. Why...??? Because no matter what he does after you, he will miss you. He might not say it but it will hurt. Getting revenge won't solve anything. He's always going to be the way he is. And if he dates one of your friends, that girl is NOT your friend. Let him go, he's going to dog everyone he goes out with. The real payback will be getting together with someone who treats you with respect and love. When he sees that, that will hurt more than anything. Revenge is not the answer. It might feel good, but the wrong way to go. Good luck... : )
2006-09-01 02:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by dolphinman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get what you're looking for, is to calmly, politely, quietly, tell him you no longer want to see him, while smiling sweetly.
You're going to exert an inordinate amount of effort on all this revenge nonsense, and he's going to think it's funny. It won't hurt him, or teach him a lesson.
End this realtionship with dignity.
Act like you are beyond happy to be free of him.
He obviously wants you to act like a jealous freak. Don't.
Let him wonder why he wasn't worth the effort. Let him squirm because you're not pouring on the drama soup that he so obviously expects. He thinks he's all that, you need to act like he isn't worth a ****.
He may pretend like he's not crushed by your sudden, effortless, icy disposal, and that's okay, cause seriously, underneath his security and confidence will have been lost, and he'll doubt himself.
Trust me, in the long run it's way better than lowering yourself to his psycho depths.
Good luck
2006-09-01 02:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tell him I wanna do something really kinky when we get home tonight and do the one thing he's really wanted to do and get into some bondage... tie him up naked hand cuffs.. get him goin.. get the chocolate and whipped cream all the sweets to make it like you're eatting off him and then previously you planned his parents.. friends.. coworkers.. basicly the ppl most involved in his life to all show up for a nice dessert a coffee get together that you have also planned without him knowing. while he's on the dining room table all cuffed to the legs.. you leave15 mins before you told people to show up (make sure you make it clear that you would like them to arrive not any earlier than the time specified as you and your man were going to announce something.. a suprise) and leaving the door wide open.. with Porn (even better if it's you and another guy homemade porn) blaring on the tv. damn so many things here that would mess that guy up.
2006-09-01 03:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by ll_freekshow_ll 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best thing to get back is to break up and be happy. he will not be able to stand you being happy. tell him the reason why is he is not man enough to be honest and true to you and you do deserve better than that. and if a gf starts going out with him she is not a real gf. and you should let your friends no that. and know he is a lier, and you have to investagate to find this all out sound like a player to me. been there done that. not a good feeling. just BE HAPPY!! that kills them!!!!!
2006-09-01 02:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by sayado 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i you want to inflict pain you have to hit on a soft spot... ha sunds like an egoistic son of a .... so i 'd say, tell him you found someone better as a person and in bed and dump him right then end there. Just make sure he believes you about the new guy, or better yet, find a new boyfriend and make syre he sees you together.
2006-09-01 02:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by metafrastria 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he may be an asshole but is there really any reasone to want revenge. girl that is stupid, i know he hurt you and from how oyu sound its pretty bad. But if he is hurting you HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOU! Get over him and go be happy. You will come to regret it if you do somthing truely nasty to him. just tell him exactly what your problem is and dump him. Then go and find someone new who cares about you and you can be completely happy with
2006-09-01 02:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by bamf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm i think you need to think about this, ok he shouldnt flirt with ur mates but neither should ur mates be flirting with him (its a two way thing) , and second whats wrong with him fancying other ppl? are you telling me u never look at anyone else and think they are cute?
just dump him get it over and done with, and if he does get with ur mate so what they deserve each other hun. be mature about this he obv isnt worth it if you feel like this and move on, and chill out babe
2006-09-01 02:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by princesssp8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen carefully get a video camera tape making bownie or cookies or a cake then you giving his best friend's head spit the the friend magic water into a bowl and say you been dumped
2006-09-01 02:58:23 · answer #9 · answered by sexy girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, if he likes one of your friends and treats you like crap, he doesn't care about you and therefore won't give a crap if you dump him, even if it is in the most horrible way. The only thing you can do is try to hurt his ego by saying that he's bad in bed or has a small *****
2006-09-01 04:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's going to go out with one of your 'friends'?
Surely the best punishment is for this horrid guy, and your so called friend, to get each other. Sounds like they deserve it.
2006-09-01 02:45:58 · answer #11 · answered by local_shop_girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋