Im great when talking to a group but not so hot when it comes to 1 on 1 (and Im really not a shy guy). This makes it tough after a while with relationships. When Im with one person after a while I just go from being talkative to almost like losing interest/can't think of anything funny and exciting to say. I know I've lost relationships over this too, and it makes me mad! What are some things I can do to avoid this? How can I keep that spark alive?
2006-09-01 02:25:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself. Read more books, magazines, newspapers, and so forth. Stay on top of current events. Talk about what you knw and ask a lot of questions. And just be yourself.
2006-09-01 02:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by Z. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about things you enjoy in your life and learn what that person likes or are interested in and read on thing they like so you can talk to them about it. Current events has alway been something that everyone can relate.
ex: if she likes designers learn about the hottest thing on the market for men. buy a sweater that she would like on you. these are called, "conversation props." a watch or cologne. read the newspaper it will keep you well rounded, there is something you read within the week to talk about at weekend dinner.
2006-09-01 09:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding a girl that is talkative, maybe you can balance each other out!
2006-09-01 09:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by sweet smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to pretend that there is a group of people there when you are talking one-on-one.
2006-09-01 09:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start blabbering about how great you are and how much better than everybody else you are you know baffle her with bull s*it
2006-09-01 09:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b ur self.
2006-09-01 09:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋