would you choose the one you love or the one that loves you i have two boys to choose and i dont know if i want the one who loves me or the one i love and i need a opnion
2006-09-01 02:01:58 · 5 answers · asked by babygurl28607 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ooo, the ultimate dilemma... I hate those...
Here's the key: Follow your heart. Seriously, listen deeply to your heart and your heart will follow you to the one you should be with.
I was in a similar situation. Had the dude I was with for 6 years, and this new guy. The dude I was with for 6 years was begging me to stay with him, and the new guy caught my eye and I really liked him, feelings were mutual. Didn't know what to do, so I followed my heart. Now I have been married for almost a year and we have a beautiful 1 month old daughter. The dude I was with for 6 years... I dumped him and he went on to physically abuse two other chicks. :\
2006-09-01 02:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's awesome to be loved but unless you love back it is a 50% situation. You'll never be 100% satisfied nor will he. It's sort of a rip off for everyone involved. How does the guy you love feel for you? The same would go in that situation. You'll be bending over backward for the guy and he won't respond in kind . . . it will wear you out, get you down (why won't he love me, am I ugly, bad in bed, a poor conversationalist, etc).
Good luck.
2006-09-01 02:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you back,the one that loves you.
2006-09-01 02:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the one that loves you
2006-09-01 02:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Andi K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one that loves me.
it's easier for you to fall for a guy who already loves you...but if you really LOVE the guy...go for him instead.
Weigh what you think will make you happy. who do you think will make you happier and more content
2006-09-01 02:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋