I know a guy, that I had a crush on(found out he's gay...he found out I like him, blah, blah, blah) Anyway, he said it was ok for us to be friends, and that It would be ok if we hung out sometime..Yay!! The last time( last friday) I talked to him he told me not to be friends with a girl we both work with because she's bad news..I told him I thought so too, I just wasn't sure.. anyway he is confusing me so bad because one minute he talks to me and jokes with me, but tonight he wouldn't even look at me!! I said hi and bye to him, but I feel like he was avoiding me( though he told me he isn't) I mean, our last conversation ended on a good note...The crush is old news, so why does he do this??
2006-09-01 01:47:51 · 18 answers · asked by confusedgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not really sure why he does this. You're sure he's gay?? Amybe he discoverd that you Are the ONE for himn. it's possible...
2006-09-01 01:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by americang21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's confused? My husband had a close friend that was a lesbian. At first before she really was one he told her he liked her. She didn't want to go out with him. At first she acted weird then it went back to being the way it was before. They were friends. When I came into the picture she didn't want to hang out with him very much. I tried to tell my husband that I thought she really did like him but he said no. Before we got married they went to dinner together, she asked him "Was there anyone you ever wish you would have dated but didn't?" He could tell she was baiting him and then realized she really did like him. He gave her a list of people he went to school with but never said her. After that she's talked to him only once since we've been married. She hasn't called and it has really hurt him because they were friends for many years. My advice to you would be to get a boyfriend, don't worry about him anymore. It sounds to me like you are in the same situation my husband was in. Good Luck! = )
2006-09-01 09:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you caught him on a bad day everyone go though them once and a while.. or he is talking behind you back and did not what you to here what he was saying. if i were you just push it aside and hope for better friendship later..
2006-09-01 08:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can change his life...pray for him; the "gay" thing it can be a sort of joke, there are person that choose to be like that because they're more interesting! May God give you the wisdom you need!
2006-09-01 08:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by liveasahb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are friends with some that isn't interested in you but wants to be buddy's,then just be buddy's think of him like your girl friend's.Everyone is moody,He will also act that way when he is in his own space with a date,just blow it off,it will be fine!
2006-09-01 08:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by indiana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish I could give you an answer that would settle your heart down about the situation, but I have to say that gay or not, men are weird creatures! :)
2006-09-01 08:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prolly a nut case
2006-09-01 12:00:09 · answer #7 · answered by Chemmers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet u could turn him straight, just dress up all sexy for him, strip and give him a hand job. He'll be yoursXD
2006-09-01 08:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thought it was his duty to reassure you and support you emotionally during the transition from your crush to your friendship with him.
knowing you are stable and secure, he has become bored with your company.
give him some space.
2006-09-01 09:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bail out find a good guy
2006-09-01 08:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by normalstudboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋