please help, new boyfriend likes to lick ears and i really do not like it but how do i get him to stop doing it he wants me to do it to him too and i just cant!!
anyone else had this problem??
2006-09-01 01:12:30 · 43 answers · asked by sam g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you just did ............now say the exact same thing to him !
cheers !
2006-09-01 01:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by BIGG AL 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you have to tell him you don't like it. How else can he know? He's not a mind reading and people have different turn on's/off's so you have to tell him yours. If you squirm away from him while he's licking your ears and he still doesn't get the picture, then just tell him. Say something like "Look, I know licking ears seems to be a big turn on for you but I got to tell you....I don't like it very much at all. I'm just totally not into ear licking! So can we try something else to turn each other on?"
My boyfriend didn't like me licking his ears. He told me, I said okay, and I stopped! That was that. I was disappointed at first, but again I just started doing other things to get him/me turned on. Ear licking is not the only turn-on technique out there. Explore other things.
2006-09-01 01:23:13 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time when he licks ..put ur hands on his head and run ur fingers through his hair look him in the eye and take him where u want him to be and say honey .. "try this and see the results" or "how about here" or "i would love this sexy" ! he would get excited as u would be confident and it wouldd be surprise and he wont be able to wait to see the results ! try this .. really works and yeah make sure u moan and groan when u licks u the place u like ..... so he knows that u enjoy it ! the more u ask him to do it nicely, confidently and in sexy way he would forget about licking ears ! good luck ! have great sex !
2006-09-01 01:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by sandras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you do like. And let him know how nice it is when he does that.
Then explain you really do NOT like ear licking! You may be saying it in a giggly way which makes him think you're just teasing him. You may need to explain your feelings in a non sexy context!
2006-09-01 01:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by CMW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say to him: "I do not like having my ears licked and I do not like licking yours. It does not turn me on. In fact, it turns me off. I never want to have this happen again. If it is real important to you then maybe we are not sexually compatible."
If he does it again stop immediately and get away and say "eeewww!". That is sick to me. I told you how I feel and you don't respect me at all. I'm leaving." Then leave.
This approach is guaranteed to be effective. It's called setting boundaries and sticking to them.
2006-09-01 01:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by YahooGuru2u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with "i really like it when..." and tell him something you do really like then say "but i don't really like it when you like my ears but don't worry cos there's plenty of stuff i do like..." Basically reassure him but also just be honest and you'll both start to find out what you really like and don't like. In the same way say what you do like doing to him but that you don't like ear licking.
2006-09-01 01:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by seaside_girl_03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from teh earbuds let teh wax build up and dont wash 'em either for a while then next time he licks he won't want to again! n seriously id just tell him sorry babe but thatreally doenst do it for me I'd rather you lick somewhere else ;)
2006-09-01 01:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight that you do not like your ears to be licked. But also tell him what you do like and ask him what he likes.
2006-09-01 01:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by London Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I like my ear licked but my girl doesn't like too so what ever makes her happy I'll be flexible I hope your man does the same
2006-09-01 01:19:34 · answer #9 · answered by normalstudboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants a GF or a salt lick... Geeezzz... Just tell him you are not into lapping your mate... especially ears... Tell him to check out E-harmony for a compatible mate instead...
2006-09-01 01:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to be rude maybe he thought that's the easiest route to get in between your legs if he has never been there hence, be straight with him and tell him you are allergic to it (which is true anyway hence you wont dislike it) and tell him to explore other parts of the body which turns you on quicker and more pleasurable...Or Else tell him you want to lick his eye lens if he can stand it, if not no deal.
2006-09-01 01:43:40 · answer #11 · answered by Junior 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋