I have no family and no friends. I don't want to commit suicide if anything happens to my mom, but I'm scared to live in this world alone. My life has been the opposite of what I'd dreamt, thought, imagined or hoped it would be. I feel scared all the time of ending up alone.
2006-09-01 00:58:27 · 10 answers · asked by The way I are 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Please believe me when I say that I've been there. The thing(s) that changed my outlook was having 2 grandchildren thrust upon me to raise. Once I had someone who needed me more than I thought I needed them, I found real love. I don't know your age, but from your post, I assume that you're old enough to volunteer to help in your community. You'll meet new people(even disabled can help with phone duties, correspondence via computer, etc) and feel good about yourself.
In any event, please, find someone that you can talk to, either clergy or mental health centers can help with this. Good luck, my friend!
2006-09-01 01:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by trog69 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My Father died a few months ago and due to the fact that I have poor health I live with my Mom.I work but I have a hard time making it.I often feel the feeling of what will I do without mom?You must reach out and make freinds even computer freinds.You can email me tell me about your self.Thats the only way to deal with your feelings.You might want to talk to a counselor as well
2006-09-01 01:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi my fellow human buddy. I experience the same thing in my life
i have my mom atmost to trust but by belief in the Bible and perseverance i have managed to survive with the help of a loving
mother ofcourse. All i,m saying is death even if as it does happen
shouldnt be a reason for you to die, keep hoping for the best in your life , do the best of what you can to minimize trouble in your
future if it happens that your mom is called first by the Lord. But most of all know this I VALUE YOU AND CARE, HOLD ON.
2006-09-01 01:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's always amazing what people come out of the woodwork to stand beside you when things get rough. There are probably more folks than you think that care about you.
Either way - you should start forging some relationships (Mom too). Join a church and a social club. Reach out to people who may need some help themselves.
Volunteering is a great way to build relationships and it really comes back to you tenfold.
2006-09-01 01:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should not say that! Find happiness from the world around you. Look at birds and animals... I advise you to have pets... Show your love to them! Showing love or having someone to love can make you feel good. It enhances your responsibilities. It depends on you... Like your mom to you.., U are the whole to them. Try it! Living for others gives you the fruit of happiness..! Get it! All the best!!
With love,
Artin :-)
2006-09-01 01:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Artin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think the opposite of what u want life to be. think of the biggest misfortune that can happen to you and then plan things according to it so that you will no linger be scared. as for friends,go to icq.com and make friends there. but i suggest that u have real friends,not only on the internet,so that u can spend ur time with them.
2006-09-01 01:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sachin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey you are never alone god is always there for you moms are the best just think some people dont even have a mom if you need a friend im here.
2006-09-01 01:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by jody n 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some friends, maybe a partner. A good place to look is www.plentyoffish.com
Then you won't be alone. Don't worry
2006-09-01 01:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Shockey Monkey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are having a bunch of anxiety - you should seek professional help from a mental health professional to help you. They have a bunch of different courses of treatment, so do not think it is not fixable - it is! Best of luck :-)
2006-09-01 01:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom will die soon
2006-09-01 01:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋