2006-09-01 00:37:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Why control anything?
2006-09-01 00:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Rock N' Roll Junkie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ur question implies that ur not happy after u masturbate but strongly feel for doing it before u ejaculate.There may be so many reasons for this.Firstly physiological (natural when one is young) or social conditions as far as i know.I said social because i read in one website that an urge for masturbation is triggered when u feel that ur social relations are not that well and u want to be the most loved.When u have a bit of rejection u feel dejected and a series of rejections brings despair and u want to show it in some way or other may be it is masturbation
If it is a physical conditon ,by now u had been enjoying the act but now u seem to be regretting for that which means u are now in positon to ascertain u sexual act better and know that masturbation is not correct for u at this stage.If this is the case then ur right.If u feel that it is not right then it is not right!You are what u are and its all in ur mind.So let ur mind be free with these obsessions and enjoy the company of ur peers and be an extrovert.It will make u a better u.
2006-09-02 02:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by santa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a guy has three options where ejaculation is concerned;
1. Wet dream
2. Masturbation
3. Sex
Its gotta come out. One way or other. However, masturbation like most habits can become compulsive. It becomes an urge that must be satisfied. The best ways to control it are;
1. Avoid sexually stimulating scenarios (****, movies etc)
2. Limit it to a specific number of times a week (say 3 times a week. Don't exceed the weekly limit).
3. Gradually reduce the weekly limit.
4. Don't stay idle, cos that's when ****** thoughts get you.
2006-09-01 02:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by HushP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is not of control. Masturbation is not unhealthy. However once it becomes a habit and an obsession then it could pose you problems. You masturbate as a result of your sexual urge. Like anyother physical urge when your sexual urge arises you may masturbate. But if the pleasure derived out of the act forces you to repeat it again and again then it may become a habit. Any habit is bad. we have to understand this. we have to aware of our mind, our thoughts which play in our mind and force us to repeat an act just to derive pleasure again and again. This understanding will help you in handling the problem of making it a compulsion. However in itself there is nothing wrong with maturbation which is indulged in as a result of the normal human sexual urge.
2006-09-01 19:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by Arun K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the easiest way to control masturbation is to view disturbing images whenever you want to masturbate. This will link a Pavlovian-disgust response to the urge to masturbate. I have a great picture of a donkey humping a naked sixty year-old lady covered in crap that does the trick every time.
2006-09-03 17:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by Donkeypunch girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't do it. It isn't a biological need and arousal is triggered by watching things or hearing things that make them think of sex. Masterbation is very normal though and not something bad usually. Naturally we are all attracted to members of the opposite sex, so it is quite natural.
2006-09-01 00:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
fix the time for masterbation.Engage busy your self.Idleman's mind is devils workshop. It is not bad but can be controlled.
2006-09-02 07:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by y?why? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray on it because you know it is wrong in God's eyes..no one elses opinion really matters..would you rather please everyone else in the world or God and Jesus? Get your prioities right and it will be easy to control and stop..you will want to stop and want to please God instead of displeasing Him
2006-09-01 01:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-01 00:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that person to have sex regularly
2006-09-01 00:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by irsh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋