I was seeing this guy who lives right accross from me. We would date regularly he would come over on a regular basis and we would talk everyday. The only thing is that he didn't want to be in a relationship with me. Their were a few times where his car was gone all night, and I had no idea where he was and Of course he was most likely spending the night at another females house because where else would he be all night. I told him that I didn't want to talk to him anymore several times before but he would continue to call and I would give in and talk to him again. Just recently a couple weeks ago I again told him that I couldn't talk to him anymore because it hurts my feelings that he sees other women. This time he for real hasen't called I haven't called him either. If he really cared about me, do think he would have called by now? We were dating for over a year, so how could he not have cared about me?
2006-09-01 00:23:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well at least he was honest about the other girls. and now he maybe understands why it would be better if you two don't talk for a while. i don't think he doesn't care.
he probably just knows that you are better off that way.
you'll find another guy...(that is what they used to tell me and it it was actually true :o) )
all the best
2006-09-01 00:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by 42 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he was spending the night with other females just because his car was not outside a few nights?Why-"of course he was most likely spending the night at other females houses"?How do you know for certain"that he sees other women"?This guy"probably"did care for you,you didn't give him the chance though.You seem to be high maintenance deary,and a bit of a nag into the bargain!!You are full of assumptions and query's about this guy,he said he did not want a relationship with you,you obviously assumed otherwise!Sorry,you only have yourself to blame here,he is better off without you in his life-i know i would be if i were him.
2006-09-01 08:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably not in love with you, but just wanted to be friends. I think he is showing he cares about you by not calling you anymore because he's been hurting your feelings. I'm sure thats not something he wants to continue to do. But he was still acting like a jerk!
2006-09-01 07:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told him you didn't want to talk to him anymore because he sees other women. He's honoring your wishes. It doesn't sound like he was in a committed relationship with you nor did he want one so what would you have him do? Give up seeing other women just so he can talk to you???
Am I not understanding this question?
2006-09-01 07:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't called then he didn't care about you at all....I am going to guess you guys were most likely sleeping together? If you were and he was still reluctant to commit to a relationship then my guess would be is you were convenient for him when he had no one else. Kudos to you for telling how you felt--move on to someone new who deserves your attention. This guy is a class A jerk......
2006-09-01 07:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating for one year will not gaurantee you the permanent relationship , better become mature and strong girl to stand on your feet . now forget about him and search another guy for future relations . Good luck .
2006-09-01 07:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible for him to not have cared about you. trust me i've been in a similar situation and it really hurts but you have to get over it. if he really cared the way he said he did he would not have continued to date you he would have let you know everything from the start
2006-09-01 08:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by vnetta26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told him not to call you, he calls you and you cave, then you tell him not to call you because he is hurting you. Now he's not calling you and you're still wondering? It's pretty clear, he cares about you enough not to want to hurt you, but he doesn't want to be exclusive with you.
2006-09-01 07:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need a boy who lets you control him a little. My wife controls me and I don't care cos she's loving and nice. I just give her what ever makes her happy.
2006-09-01 07:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause you told him to go away,and now he has. A lesson for today : Be careful what you ask for, you might get it!
2006-09-01 07:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋