i have been talking to this guy for a year i started telling him i loved him bout a month ago he never says it back.we help each other all the time like money wise.well last night i helped him out and when he went to bed he said thank you nite love you for helping i was happy to hear those words but i dont understand is he saying that he loves me 4 helping or did he just word it wrong?and he has never said that before when i helpd him
2006-08-31 23:54:03 · 7 answers · asked by Manda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless you have some sort of romantic involvement, he may love you, but not be IN love with you. Big difference there. Helping each other out with money and such sounds more like friendship than romance.
2006-09-01 00:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey take it from me, a man, i mean we seldomly do the thins we should and oftenly do the things we shouldnt. Hey Know this love is a spice of live not the actual meal but an additive so when it is said and shown then hey you know it. Look at this way if every man went arounfd telling women that they loved them every hour of the day every day of the week, every month of the year, every year then it would be spicy any more it would be stale..... you get me. But hey nothing beets talking to him about it.
2006-09-01 00:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by chad g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to stay with this guy? Then stop telling him you love him. He's not ready for the same relationship that you are. Been there, done that. And when you are ready for a real relationship move on, because this is not the one. Sorry.
2006-09-01 00:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by sexylips232 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has an issue with saying he loves u... give it time, if he makes u wait too long and u cant stand it just tell him u need to know how he feels
2006-08-31 23:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any body can say his/her frn that "I love you" but its not meaning that he/she love you for Marry (woo). Give him time or Ask him clearly that is he interested or not in you.
If he avoid your proposal, dont change yourself, love, love, love, love and love, ......., him he will change, and love you, God Bless you
2006-09-01 00:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by Noori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he was proberly just speakin and not meaning it but ask him about it!!
good luck with it and i hope your dream comes true!!!
2006-08-31 23:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by x <3 Laurz <3 x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has grown to love you? or he has only just realised it?
2006-08-31 23:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by UnhappySecondBest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋