my boyfriends x was training to be a nurse and he keeps asking me to dress up as one. they broke up about 2 years ago and he doesnt talk to her but its extreme, we live together and he wont go to a lot of places in the area incase shes there. does this mean anything?
2006-08-31 23:47:00 · 29 answers · asked by firefly85 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just wana thank everyone for their answers - except the indigo dude, if ur guna insult me at least have the decency to elaborate!
2006-09-01 21:00:15 · update #1
just because he fantasises about u in a nurse's outfit doesnt mean he doesnt love u..and on the other hand if he doesnt want to visit those places which he visited with her it means he wants to forget about it and continue his relationship with you....u may have something great going on...good luck
2006-08-31 23:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by hellmaster_aa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's not over her yet. He still thinks about her and is really afraid of seeing her again, cause he still has feeling for her (even though he may not really want to accept those feelings).
Help him forget her. Talk to him...calmly and clear up everything. Make his open his heart to you, not to be afraid that you may get angry over that or anything. Make him confess! In this way you have nothing to hide to each other and things will go much better.
Good luck
2006-08-31 23:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like their women to dress up ... it's a fetish and could lead to some kinky sex games - maybe he wants you to shove a pipe up his a*** and give him an enema!
I don't think he's really over his ex either ... if he's scared of seeing her out on the town. He thinks either he'll want her again or she'll try to win him back.
2006-09-01 00:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm in role play, she probably his ex i mean never did ,i am a nurse and its the last thing i want to pretend i am in my free time,Doubtful she wore her uniform at home as mine is laundered at the clinic where i work,less cross infection so.....what are you waiting for have fun xx
2006-08-31 23:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by Joeline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bfs ex was a nurse, and to be honest if he ever mentioned me dressing up as a nurse , i wud be seriously hurt, it would make me feel sick, i think he is not over her, why would he ask you 2 dress up as a "nurse", and hes obviously avoiding her so he doesnt get those feelings back.
2006-09-01 00:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean that he still likes his ex asking you to dress up like a nurse, he just finds nurses uniforms sexy, he spllit with his ex because they had no future. Its up to you if you want to do it or not and maybe you should tll him your worries.
2006-08-31 23:51:55 · answer #6 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to dress as a nurse so he can close his eyes and secretly be with her. Ditch the kinky Bas*ard, you deserve better.
2006-08-31 23:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by pat.rob00 Chef U.K. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he either is still in love with her, or hates her and can't stand the sight of her. Maybe you should ask him why you have to avoid her, he is the only one that really knows.
2006-08-31 23:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he may still feel for her, either that or he totally cant stand her and does not want to have to see her again, alot of guys dig the whole nurse costume thing!
2006-08-31 23:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to dress up as a nurse/maid/dominatrix WHATEVER to put this one out of his mind!!! Blow him away with your bedroom antics girl!
As for going places where she may be - thats a bit weird, maybe they broke up on very bad terms and its awkward or something?
I wouldnt worry bout it though - its you he's with!
2006-09-01 00:19:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋