My boyfriend & I have been together for 2 months now. He used to be my close friend before. At that time I just could understand from his eyes that he didn't really look at me just as a close friend, but he ogled me. I pretended not to notice that, but I could understand that he really wanted me and that he was in love with me.
Now that we are together I don't see that kind of look in his eyes anymore. Even when I wear smth sexy and all guys stare at me, he doesn't really give any reaction. He just sometimes behaves like jealous when he notices other guys look at me, (even though I don't really think that he is jealous at all).
Do you think he doesn't love me, he doesn't want me anymore? Do you think that I should not go on with this guy anymore and break up with him?
I don't know what to think, cause I want him to love me like I do.
Please help me. What do you think I should do????
Thank you in advance,
2006-08-31 23:09:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gal there is nothing wrong , its jus the extra importance n pampering that you miss... n you could tell ur boy abt this but even you need to understand n grow up.. Nothing is everlasting if anything its just the change..
Answer this n sure you'll understand.. When you were born n very young ur parents pampered you so much n took care of every small thing abt you.. n as time passed by sure things have changed isnt it... so does it mean they dont love you.. jus the same way..
A boy when is waiting n trying hard to hunt his love is sure to give loads of attention n do anything n everything.. but once he feels secure tht he's got his love he would relax a bit... as u said tht whn u dress sexy he gets uneasy .. thts a gud sign tht means he is possessive abt u ...
If u still need tht pampering then once in a while make him feel slightly insecure ahh but only to the bareable extent.. else he mite get fed up of tht too.. so All the best..
2006-08-31 23:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by roshnimj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just now got what he's been fantasizing about before and maybe the thrill has gone away a bit. Maybe you guys could try to do something to bring back the sizzle.
In relationships it's really easy to lose that spark. Doesnt necessarily mean he's lost interest in you, just that you need to remind him what it was like before you got together. Do something special for him. Good luck
2006-09-01 06:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by julsgene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, may be he is cacting like a cat after eating part of a lizard. Thats hw men r, after gettin something, he may tend to lose someinterest n if his love aint deep, the relationship may fail. Talk to him n see what he says, if it fails, necxt time dont rush to give in, take ur time n let him beg some!
2006-09-01 06:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by aasweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look after a certain period of time in a relashionship you are just happy and content and the jealousy is gone cause he knows that you like him and care for him and other guys stare at you and he is not jealous just show how secure he is about the relashionship and how much he trusts you...don't panic...just enjoy the relashionship!your guy trusts you and you should too..
2006-09-01 06:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by sheen_rora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for his commitment to you by getting engaged or by getting married. If he tries to postpone or ignores you, then he is not interested anymore in you. Just leave him and look for a commited stable guy. Hope this helps...
2006-09-01 06:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by jumapily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've given him all you got, so now the thrill is gone, better look for another guy, and hold back a bit
2006-09-01 06:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Due to the Law of Diminishing Return.
2006-09-01 07:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u really love him u should wait awhile
2006-09-01 06:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by blonde d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it's a big deal maybe tell him what you feel?
2006-09-01 06:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by bel282 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋