I love a girl and she is an actress, we met not quit long, i love her so much but she prefer having me as a christain friend ad not as her guy, but loves me christainly, what do i do
2006-08-31 22:57:25 · 31 answers · asked by cidieschat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-31 23:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Astra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you told her your true feelings? I may turn out that she feels the same way she may not but if you stay as you are then you will never know. So when you feel the time is right tell her that your feelings run deeper than just friendship and see what she has to say. But ensure you say that this should in no way change your current relationship with her. Good luck.
2006-09-01 00:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by charlotte e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do do what you want. She's not your responsibility any more than any human on the planet. If you want to be her friend and not her lover you forget about any feelings you have for her that would ruin your friendship. If you want to be her lover you tell her that and you don't accept anything less. What you don't do is pretend to ber her friend while you're trying to find a way to romance her. That's cowardly and she deserves more respect.
2006-08-31 23:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her directly and say what you want to a relationship. Ask her also what she wants. Its better to understand each other rather than guessing each others feelings. But be careful, the answers will tell you the truth and it may not be good and not what you expect.
Be open! Have a good communication!
2006-08-31 23:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by rhanz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I presume you both have the same Christain believes, so,
you should understand ..if she regards you as a friend and nothing more.....would suspect your not the one to 'turn her on'
as it were...........look to your christain beliefs...'better to have loved and lost' and 'get a life'
2006-09-08 11:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by landgirl60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her wishes. I had a guy friend that I told this to, he didn't listen and kept trying to put his arm round me, inappropriate touching for friends and even trying to kiss me, I no longer see this so called friend as he just got on my nerves.
So decided what you want to do, have her in your life or not?
2006-08-31 23:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetcakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what will be, will be. Maybe you are putting on too much pressure, and placed her on a pedestal that she feels stifled by. You can like but not love, count blessing s you have with all relationships, and value what you have, ensuring it is real, and not necessarily what you want it to be.
2006-09-06 21:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being her friend will be the best decision you ever take for both of you.
It will help you understand each other, and friendships are made to last.
2006-08-31 23:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by coolray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mate ditch her as a girlfriend and find someone that you can have a proper relationship with(sexual)but remain friends with her for her beliefs.you say she is an actress well dont be her co-star mate live your life .
2006-09-06 08:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her just go along 4 da ride....remember a flower doesnt bloom if you dont allow the time 4 it 2 grow
2006-09-06 10:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept what she wants if she only wants you as a friend and you can deal with that then do it if not walk away as you will both get hurt otherwise
2006-09-08 09:26:39 · answer #11 · answered by jcee_81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋