I am 'casually dating' this guy, and I am starting to feel more for him than I feel I should. I don't think he feels the same way. Well, he tells me that he thinks it's cool that we can just hang out and date and what not and not have to worry about the seriousness of a commitment. I don't know why he doesn't want to be in a serious relationship with me. We have sex. We hang out almost every day. I am really starting to fall for him...hard. He told me that it's because I am not a Christian, and he is. SERIOUSLY...do you think that is it? My best friend told me that it is because he is HIV positive and may not be around long, and he doesn't want to hurt me in that way. What do you think? (PS...don't email telling me not to sleep with him...I am a grown woman and I know what I am doing. Thank you very much for your concern, however. We are safe.) I love him...I don't know how to tell if he feels the same way? What do I do?
2006-08-31 22:53:44 · 8 answers · asked by Courtney 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play with fire long enough, you're gonna get burned
2006-08-31 23:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by want2wild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL well if you are a grown woman then you should beable to tell him you feel and what you want. I thought CHRISTIAN'S didn't believe in sex before marriage. So maybe he does not think you are wife matieral because you have had pre marital sex. So thats probally why he does not want your relationship to go any futher.And if you stay with him he will just keep having sex with you till he does find the VIRGIN and marries her.........So you really need to find out from him his reasons so in the end you don't get hurt as bad.
2006-09-01 06:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by pam b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first..woman have an emotional attachment with whom ever they gave sex with. Men usually have the luxury of not getting attached. If he enjoys what he thinks is a casual relationship then that is the way it will stay. You have obviously agreed at some point to the type of "dating" you are doing and it will be hard to change it now.
2006-09-01 05:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by shelshe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either shining you on about his Religion or he's damaged goods. Christians do not engage in pre-marital sex. It's a sin. He is offending that faith that he holds so dear each time you're close to one another. The only way to make good on his offences to his God is to Marry you. He doesn't love you as you love him either because he's playing you with his Christin Boy scam or because he's just F'ed in the head and going to make you increasingly miserable if you try to figure out his wierd religious beliefs.
He wants to bang you without responsibility. I wish it were more romantic. He's going to break your heart.
2006-09-01 06:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl first of all u r all out in love ,, u mentioned HIV well if its true that means CAUTION is adviced n ask him if so. well if time is less for him n u .. look at it the other waay he spoilet his life on may be doin other women where he contracted it. if not so then love him for he would be the joy of ur life
2006-09-01 05:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by nitin_saldana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can answer this question for you...talk to him, be direct and honest. If he is not direct and honest with you than maybe you should reconsider dealing with him... Although you may really like him, you need to be able to trust him and his intentions. Protect yourself (heart and body). Good luck!
2006-09-01 06:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well well well
you see that is what i am talkin about
with all my respect to all my ladies in da house
He is being real man
and he trying not to lie
but if he does maybe he do not feel it
but i am sure if he said it ,, it will make you very happy
man why women like lies all the time lol
i wounder
2006-09-01 05:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by Momomada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh???
2006-09-01 06:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by fredglendenning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋