i dnt knw ,, when is aint doin her job she is all over the phone with me. and when she goes for her BPO job training she never gives a call its always me the first to cal n what do i get hey ill talk to u later. i means ya insecurity is the key her be live far apart she's stays in a diffferent state all together. And guess wat the other day she got pissed n told me nt to keep calin her up. but when she is home. she gets i feel lonely n then we talk. we tlk practically almost everyday i make it a point tho. any expreiences..
ya im a afraid she being so friendly n open .. i hope she does not drift away... thats a wild guess
2006-08-31 22:17:42 · 10 answers · asked by nitin_saldana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well she is busy,u're the one who should understand her obligation as an employer at work.And she does call you whenever she's at home because she wants to return your call and she had plenty of times talking to you on the phone which means she cares for you
2006-08-31 23:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey bro, dont worry so much about this matter... maybe she is busy afterall she's working... you cant expect her to keep on calling you like what she did at home... and i guess she must be very busy at her workplace thats why she cant make the time to call you... I'm working ymself and i know exactly how the state is like... sometimes my bf too will say the same thing about me not calling him and all but i would always explain to him the same thing that i am very busy and when i want to make a time to call him, things will always came up like my boss calling me and stuff... And what if she gets caught by her boss while talking to you? You wont want your gf to get scolded by her boss dont you? So dont worry about it too much... being friendly and open is a common thing but being flirty is another... So if you think that your gf is flirting around or have any doubts and since you are worried and wants her attention then you should try to explain to her...clarify with eachother... talk your feelings out to her on what you feel about the whole situation... Dont worry too much on this matter, I'm sure your gf loves you...i mean you guys talked everyday right? thats a good thing... just think positve alright buddy...she just dont know how managed the time to call you thats all... but above all that, im sure she is a great gf right? so dont worry... just try to explain to her ok and hopefully everything will be alright... Goodluck and takecare.
2006-09-01 05:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by Faradoves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... you want to get women's opinion about that... well, try to understand and be patient with her... thats the most important keys to have a lasting relationship with the one you love... As you can see... usually women are career oriented... work hard not only to have money but becoz we want to proved something that should men understand... work is work! But as i can analyzed... she talked to you whenever she's at home and thats proved that she loves you... and she needs you everytime she feels lonely... and thats the most important things... the only person she's always in her mind is YOU... and nothing else!
She will not drift away, im surely she will be with you in mind, heart and soul! Just do your part! Just be always with her and never leave her... coz i know she will loves you in return! OK
2006-09-01 05:42:28 · answer #3 · answered by latteen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same goes here, but mine is solved olready, we broke up...
though i didnt do anything, i was faithful okey, butdistance really matters and we weren't able to handle it, sad but sooner i'll get over it.
hey, i'm not implying that u shld brek up w/ her...
just be cautious and at the same time be optimistic and learn when to turn the red light on.
2006-09-01 05:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she's in job training, it's just that... she's concentrating on doing her job, like she should be!
Leave your personal discussions when you're both home and able to talk.
2006-09-01 05:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe when she's on training she doesn't have time and gets stressed but when she's at home she's just herself and has plenty of time for you. Don't really know what's in her head, you should ask her not us.
2006-09-01 05:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by chante 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are fickle. Love em but give em space.
2006-09-01 05:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to lighten up. Date someone closer.
2006-09-01 05:24:51 · answer #8 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she is a girl
2006-09-01 05:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by bprice215 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can either treat her your way or her way...or you can compromise, take the middle road or dump her already...
2006-09-01 05:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by ^ross^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋