What would you say/do if a girl mate told you that she liked you more than a friend?
2006-08-31 22:11:16 · 26 answers · asked by buttafly_biattch 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What would you do/say if your girl mate told you that she liked you more than a friend?
I like a guy I work with and we are mates but I'm too scared to tell him because I dont know what his reaction would be, plus I dont want to make things awkward for us because we work together...
2006-08-31 22:48:35 · update #1
I would be thankful she feels the same way I do. Just wish I had the guts to step up first. never hesitate to tell a friend how you feel about them. those are the best relationships that start out as friends. Most often you already know each other pretty well already, and you already CARE for one another so you try that much harder to make each other happy.
2006-08-31 22:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by amvet06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I´m married, I´d tell her to calm down and if it continued, we´d have to stop hanging out. I have always been friends with women for a reason, (friendship) if I wanted more than that, I made it really clear right away. I´ve had a few girl friends that hit on me and it was revolting. I keep away from women (other than wife and family) as much as possible now.
2006-09-01 05:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by Tristansdad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its a good idea to tell him that and if u did go out,thats very unprofessional because it would ruin the relationship as workmates and u guys end up in trouble at work.Don't go out with someone who works at same place same time with u
2006-09-01 06:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if any lady friend told me at work that they liked me and would like to get to know me better i'd go on a proper date with them ans see if anything was more between us than just being friends so i say go for girl
2006-09-01 06:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by mr_grumpy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all depends on you!!
1.Do you like the gal?Dun play around by saying i feel the same eventhough u dun feel like looking at her.If u have a heart for you then only make a move.If u dun feel the same way,tell her honestly how you feel and try to continue your friendship as usual because if u pull back then she will get hurt..Be nice.My gf is my mate last time but now we couples because i feel the same way as she feels...Its all up to you....How u feel on her!!!Be honest!!!
2006-09-01 05:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by neshboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I would talk to her very politley and say "(Persons name) I am terribly sorry but I dont feel that way about you.....You are just a friend and I think it would be more comfortable for both you and me to just take it slow and be friends ok? *smile"
Lauren
2006-09-01 05:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i will say that i have'nt think about you like that but i'll be your friend for always and you can see me for any kikn of help at any time. But if i like her then i will keep quite or tell her my real feelings about her.
2006-09-01 05:17:56 · answer #7 · answered by kellen_de 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The last time she said that, we fell deep in love with each other & she moved to canada.
Well she got the load off her back & loaded it onto mine!
2006-09-01 05:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her to be a friend if you dont like her
2006-09-01 05:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend that the car alarm is going off and run outside the house quick!
2006-09-01 05:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by Slacker34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋