I just got a comment on one of my questions that say's I am a bad mother I not my child has food clothing a roof over her head she spoiled rotten in good ways. I teach my children the values of everyday life and coseqences on action that they take. So why is it that they say I am a bad mother. That just pisses me off there are alot worse people out there that treat there children bad but I get called a bad mother for my daughter being a tom boy. It's not right. Who ever wrote that need to be checked into place.
2006-08-31 22:05:03 · 21 answers · asked by medevilqueen 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
First of all, don't let people who don't know you say what kind of a mother you are. I've been called a bad mother too, but I can promise you my daughter is very well taken care of. Don't let the people on Yahoo Answers spoil what you have with your child. The fact that you were caring enough to ask if your child would outgrow the movie stage shows that you love her. No worries hon, just report the ignorant.
2006-08-31 22:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Gayle 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry if people call you a bad mother. As long as you know you are doing the best you can for your child then your a good mother.
Make sure that child has food, clothes, education, values, goals, roof over its head, and anything else your feel your child needs to succeed in life. Don't listen to those fools. Listen to your head and your heart!
2006-09-01 04:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will learn very quickly that Yahoo Answers has become a lot like chat in the way that there are a lot of dumb ******* who do nothing but go from question to question putting nasty or rude answers. The point is to get a rise out of you. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people who get off on disturbing others. It gives them a thrill b/c of their own insecurity. It's obvious the guy who wrote that was just being rude. Let it go in one ear and out the other. You know if you're a good mother. You don't need anyone on the internet to say whether you are or not....cuz that guy who said that crap didn't know jack, but really neither do we.
2006-08-31 22:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by Cy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with your daughter being a tom boy, I was and so were my sisters. You have to admit playing with girls toys are a bit boring, I mean why would every little girl want to learn how to cook, clean and vacuum? The boys get exciting toys that make cool noises the girls get a baby that poops and pees, yeah!? Just be happy that there really isn't a huge stigma on girls being rough and liking boys items. She knows she's a girl and that is all that it important.
2006-08-31 22:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be sad! We, as human beings have to endure these kind of words, pray for that person! You are a good mother, love your children, teach them the good values, to live nice and you'll be the best mother!
2006-08-31 23:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by liveasahb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the opinion of some idiot on yahoo really mean that much to you? Check yourself sweety, there are some looney tunes on here. Some dipshit that doesn't even know you or your child can not assess whether or not your a good mom, only you can.
2006-08-31 22:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, girls who are tom boys eventually grow out of it..My niece who is 22 now was the biggest tom boy ever..She even walked like a guy, now you wouldn't ever believe that she was a tom boy once..We see pict and we really freak out..Now and days you prefer your girl to be a tom boy why rush her to act girlish..The way girls act now, not me..I wouldn't want my lil girl preg at 13..
2006-09-01 05:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by Strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, yeah, I just read that answer and they guy was OBVIOUSLY JOKING. He was trying to tell you that maybe the fact that your two year old daughter likes choo-choo trains is not something to be concerned about, and you may be taking things a smidge too seriously.... which you apparently have a tendency to do. It was a joke.
2006-08-31 22:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by smurfette 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let one idiot upset you like this, what does he know anyway! I'm sure you're a great mother, you provide for your daughter. It is normal that she plays with cars, etc., this doesn't even make her a tomboy. Relax and take care of yourself.
2006-08-31 22:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you didn't tell us what your other questions was, and what exacly the other person said...but if what you say is true about providing for her, and teaching her morals (which is great!) then I think you are better off than a lot of parents. :)
2006-08-31 22:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by Amy J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋